The Waiting Game: Love, Patience, and Strength and Your Weekly Relationship Tarot Reading

Episode 68

Summary:

The Waiting Game: Love, Patience, and Strength and Your Weekly Relationship Tarot Reading

To wait or not to wait? It’s a difficult decision. The love note this week asks you to wait, twice. Is it worth it? For love, it always is, but don’t wait in vain. Work on yourself, become a better person, a better friend, a better neighbor. Use your time wisely. Even if things don’t pan out, you’ll be left stronger and you’ll have invested in the greatest virtue we can learn as humans, patience.

So many warrior readings lately. It is such an honor to read tarot for such strong, amazing archetypes! A warrior must follow their instincts and strike when the moment is right. But warriors know fueling a feud leaves us blind, but one must never back down from a bully. Otherwise, they take a mile. Trust yourself, you’ll wait till you can’t wait any longer.

Wind: 00:09:31

Water: 00:30:57

Earth: 00:54:00

Fire: 01:04:39

Wait: 01:26:16

This show and personal happening made me listen to this song today. Maybe it will have meaning for you too? I love this version and the rust in his voice.

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Intro:

To wait. The Great Debate. We have lovely. But. There was two way card. You know, brings up this. You know this question? How long do you wait for somebody? How long? The better question is why are you? Understand why. It either makes the wait. Less or it makes the weight worth it great. And there's a. That, you know, when they find themselves in a kind of a weight stage, of course there is an essence of. You know, wanting to allow a man to be a man, right? There's an essence of love weights, right? If you really love someone, you wait for somebody. And then there's an essence of I'm not ready. I'm actually going to wait. Because I'm actually not. Right. So again, the question becomes, why are you wait? Weather to wait? There is, there's something to be said for that. So we we have to understand our own mode. That makes us feel pulled away. And who's asking us to wait in is the number is the next question. Is it a narcissist? Is it your heart? The situation. Others in this situation. Right. Why? Waiting. So this episode really asks us, and maybe the the terror readings. You know are for that person you're waiting. This week, you know what I mean? That's going to be absent. So I never really knew what these terrible readings like the whole this whole thing comes together in a in a retrospect, terror readings get done. And then, I mean, the cards decide what the show is going to be about every week, not me. Next week. And you know whether to wait or not to wait. It's alternately up to you, that's why. Another reason why people you know like Terra because apparently helps you. Figure these kind of questions out. No one wants to be sitting there waiting, forever losing their youth. You know on a narcissist that you're not good enough for, right? Right. That's that's the fear. That's the fear. That's what ultimately pushes us out of. You know, a pause or away type of energy. My best advice when it comes to this kind of weight energy. Again, First off, you know while you're waiting, if you truly love someone, it's OK. Because all you're going to do is go out and hurt other people or hurt yourself. You know, trying to run away from emotions that you can't get away from. Waiting is not necessarily waste of time. There was plenty of self development that can happen during week periods. You know, everybody could use. Last, and that's the other way to look at a period of. Period to rest and so. Get ready. And you know, there's a lot of Warrior cards coming out in the deck. So my cards are leading towards describing my listeners and this Warrior type energy. So people that have been tested, people have been through multiple battles. Warrior hasn't just been through one battle. The order has been through multiple battles. They have battle scars. They have hard lessons learned, right? And again, that hard lesson learned. Will make us wait. So that you really need to channel your inner warrior right now. And ask. Now. Is it? Do we wait? And yes, of course you always wait for the attack. Unless it is of your advantage to attack first, right? We don't go into battle unless we have a battle planner. Unless we're our backs are up against the wall. Your backs up against the wall. Yeah, you have to charge out of that because you're screwed if you stay in that position. So that's. Another way to look at it, like are you getting more screwed the longer you wait? Because if that is the case, then yeah, you don't wait. Bounce out of that that situation as quick as possible in case you're back. You know. Out of the corner. Right. So. Yeah, this episode like ask a lot of questions. About. You know why you're waiting and whether you should wait. Again, it's. Is it out? Your detriment is probably. The most important question. But again, you're. So. You know how to weigh these these options you. How to fight? Your back is in. Back out of that. Right. So. On the way. That. One thing I know. About my own battles that I've gone through with. My own life. Is that one opportunity to rest comes take? Because it might not. It might be a while. This. And that is probably my best advice. You know, being bad. When the time when you are not having to defend yourself. That is the time to rest. So accepting the fact that your life has its own rhythm. And that these periods of waiting or actually periods of resting before you're about to suit up and go back out there, right? So it's a different way to look at it. There is no harm in waiting if it's waiting for the right reasons, If it's if you're getting rest fullness while you while you wait. If you're between battles, you know I'll wait. Is. His desire? So you don't have to feel pushed to find your boyfriend or you know, your future husband or partner. You know when we push too too early or push too soon or don't take the time to heal or? Or Rust. Same deference. You know, we get out there and we get, we get hurt. But again. Life lived on. On the badge isn't exciting. You're not playing in the. So. When you're ready. Right. Stop. Anyway, a little introspection. And patience is a great virtue. Enough patio. Right, so if your heart is truly sat on this. Your heart. You. Can't think about anybody else is not going. That's OK. Especially if you. Testing yourself and yourself care while. The readings this week went wind, water, earth. Very lovely. So check the descriptions and you. Skip ahead and you may cross listen if you want to. This is all show. There's always something to me. To be pulled from it. And again, I'll be back next week with something saxy and we talk about 69. It's like random random thing. Sex act? Anyway, here's the show. Have a good week. Enjoy the the springtime. Yeah.

Wind:

OK. Relationship reading this week, soul mate. Yes, this is your soul mate. Someone may. What? What is your overall energy? You're seeing the signs that you're kind of being angelically protected in some way. You're kind of seeing like the universe. Protecting you. Some kind of divine intervention is going. You have some particular sign that you have for the soul mate. You see it a lot. What is their overall energy? Yeah. So I don't know, there might be like you might be wanting to protect this person. Their overall energy towards you is they're acting very fake right now on social media. They are. They're they're really acting fake and they're kind of hiding from social. OK. Um. Emotionally, you're just right. You're feeling very weak down by this particular connection. Could have just. Testing. I believe. Emotionally, they're magnetically drawn to you. They're drawn to this emotionally. So they are like in this pretty. Wanting to. Motion as though they feel drawn to you. In your head space right now, something is coming to awareness when it comes to. Exactly. And there has basically what I take your vacation. Thinking about a vacation? What is your? In a way. Coming into this relationship. A friend this friendship. Have you been friend zoned? It's similar friendship. Romantic partners. So. Maybe you have another soul mate that is in the way or. What's in the way of that? Happiness. So weird when that comes out. Yeah, you will overcome this. Other soul mate. This friendship. You might have another You're either in the friend zone with this person, or you have another friendship. That is. Threatening this particular relationship and you're going to realize that you're lesson is learned when it comes to this other particular person. I feel like that's another soul. Maybe it's your current romantic partner. I don't. They will overcome this happiness. Whatever this is, it's in the way by by wishing and yearning for this. What's between you and those? Today, trying to be mindful. Emotion. Balance. Between you mentally is your you're both upset. Ready to? I'll come here for this relationship. Change. Not doing anything. Just again. Going around and around and around. Just, you know, living your life. OK, why is happiness their obstacle really not? Are they struggling with that crashing? Going on. They happy and have another situation. Let's put this. It's drastic. Obstacle is drastic. Happiness. They're happy that's being cut off. I need one more, just don't quite understand. They might feel like it's a risk to their happiness. If you're in connection with this person regularly, they might worry about coming on to you because they would risk the relationship and then they're really happy with the relationship. That I could see that as as this possible this possibility. So if you're connected with this person on a daily basis, if you have a friendship. You again, you might be needing to this might this feels like. A friendship. Friendzone Energy. In which you're wanting more and but there is a fear of losing the friendship. You know what I mean? Either that or you have another friend in the way. What's this realization that you? It's about the past. Realize something about the past. History. Something comes to light. Some kind of history? Again, you're feeling emotionally. That's. Trying to get them. You guys have a history of connecting to one another. You have a history that connects. OK. What about today? Back to this feeling like you need rescued or feeling like you need to involve. Well, you're a wind sign, so you can. Involve others? Let's continue down. Let's see what. Their motions are. I think you're very. They know that you're a faithful person. They would love to support you. They're trying to do the right. By. But they're miserable because they're haunted by their past. Things that they've done in the past. So your person is being haunted. Are the things they've done in their in their past. They're trying to have integrity. They want to support. They want to find their way back to you. You relax them and they think you're very sweet. What would they say? Credible bully If you really have an intimidating nature, when I use the word bully here, is that you're. But they also see you as like a life companion, that you're very loyal. So say you're kind of pushy. And then terminating, but you're a good. They also see you as a healer. Do you have a passion for helping? What would they sex? 1. Sentence. Into. Should I? It was outdoors. Let's get some. This, this train keeps on. Schedule. There's something that's kind of sneaky about this relationship. But it's. But it continues. It's really sneaky with this. And there's a lot of. Days. That there's still this need there. There's moving on. For having any expectation, there's a need. All right. So they have some kind of. You know, some people are just so cynical. That like they don't believe in happiness, where they've been sad longer than they've ever been happy. I feel like that's your person. I feel like you're personally. You know what I mean? I don't want to call on the ER, but. I feel like they may, Kind of. Swallow a little bit. Or or self deprecating in some kind of way they don't believe in. But you're going to make this person happy again. Right now this stuff between you is kind of sneaky, but it but it's going slow. But it's a sure. It's surely gonna, it's surely. Again, going to surely has a foundation. There is dreaming about it. That there's a need to. Expecting. Happy. And that's the. So again, like you might think, this will make you. But. That's the fear. Fear is like, well, what? Can't stop. Now he's. Probably just read my text message. Like. I just texted it all like I just recorded your meltdown. Milk, though. Sorry for the interruption. Sorry for the chaos. Yeah. Yeah, his friend just got it. You got a Pokémon? This is kid life, alright? I all of a sudden there's like, you don't know if they're upset or they're actually excited. Pokémon friend just got a rare Pokémon, OK? Very. So again, like there's this, there's this need that and fear about being happy. The fear is actually happiness or that they're not maybe able to make you happy, you know, the expectation. And that could be again what what is their obstacle? They might. This person might believe that they can't make you happy again. There's a this is a secret fear of the emperor, of the king, of cops, of this father of the of this man that you have feelings for. It is a, you know, there's a big burden here when it comes to marriage. It's OK. Excited. OK, well. Next. Quiet exam recording for the next two hours. I'm very sorry, It's. You. Testing. They underneath our. Have to worry about. He's done really good. Again for the interruptions and. Yeah, so this this particular person is afraid they're not going to be able to make you. We figure that you'll just think they're dead. So this this is your soul mate. But again, there's like this. There's like this fear that they won't be able to make you happy. So again, you might. You might need to. You might need to communicate to this person. How easy it is to make you. You know what I mean. Think about the things that make you happy. Maybe you need to project more happiness. In general, people are more attracted to happy people. If you're making yourself happy and you're already happy, you know, they might feel a little bit less responsibility. You know what I mean? Again, if if neither of you do anything, you guys will just continue to go round and round in this hamster wheel entirely. Just work in another day to get paid. So if you really want this relationship. You're gonna have to. You might have to go out and get it. I'm watching this this guy right now on Instagram. He's got some like, you know, dating method anyway. And so he's doing all these daily reels with his advice on dating and he is very particularly pushing women to instigate the relationship. He's saying that men just don't instigate relationships anymore. Culturally, it's much more difficult. They've kind of given up in a way. So if this person is someone that is magnetically drawn to you. You know, they're they're over there planning on venture, planning a vacation right now. So again. You need to to let this person know that your happiness is about you. It's not about someone else making you happy that you need to demonstrate that you're happy without anybody making you happy. This might take this. This energy. and this your card for this week? You're. You're. Is frustrating. Your frustration is not wasted energy. If it is channeled positively to create a better outcome for yourself. Embrace the frustration and work with it, not against it. So you're sitting over here feeling very frustrated, like, doesn't he like me isn't, you know, we. We feel magnetically drawn. There's some pretending acting fake, but there's more going on here. Um, you know it. It is hard to step out. And, you know, instigate things, especially when we're still kind of like, you know, believing like. It's hard because I mean, I'm watching this guy and like I said, he's over here like you just need. To do this and he's trying to help women get over like dating out mentality, you know what I mean? And it's kind of he's kind of what he's kind of doing is pushing the numbers game into women's heads if you need to play the numbers game like men did you. Ask Ask much people see. What comes back and you would be surprised? And so I feel like you know you're frustrated because you don't feel like this is going anywhere. And I don't think that this person is going to jump in. Both feet with you just out of nowhere. There's some insecurities. There's some fear that they won't be able to make you happy. This is your soul mate, Yes, for sure who we're talking about. This is your soulmate. This is someone who makes you very happy and a relationship. So they're worth it. So go ahead and you know, go talk to them, put your hands on them, touch their arm, touch their leg. Laugh at their stupid jokes, even if they're not funny. Take the frustration out of this, and we have to remember men have been pushed their entire lives to be the instigator, only to get turned down repeatedly. And there's only so long that someone's ego can take being turned down until they give up. So I feel like your person is in a state in which they've given up on finding love or giving up on finding happiness, and they just don't want to be turned down anymore because it makes it too fucking awkward. So you need to be the one that goes out and makes. Go tell someone that you know is the biggest whose person is probably ever so. Tell the biggest loud mouth of the office. You know what you mean. Like, go hedge your bets. So that this person doesn't feel like it is risk. To. Again, I'm sorry for the for the small interruption. In the Reading Bible busy week, I I can't not give these readings done. This is the time that's set to do. Stomach ache not gotta do. Alright, so yeah, this reading is, you know, encouraging me. To get over the frustration, go instigate and go play the game. Touch their. Give them all the signals that say I'm into you if you're wanting them to step forward into relationship. Alright. And if. If this has been like your friend at work, that you talk about all your other relationships and stuff like that, you know you might want to communicate to them that whatever you got going on is over. It's done. You run that less. Right. You know. Let's go do it. Alright, go do it. See what happens. Maybe I'll heads forever.

Water:

Going to apologize and Vance. Stop. He actually. This is all. So. See what happens. Keep an open mind. Your soul mate may differ from your usual type expectations. OK, so this person might be different. And you're used to. Your overall energy is very masculine right now. They're overall energy is toxic. They're either dealing with their own toxic behaviors or they're dealing with toxic people around them. Emotional. You're in the present moment today. See what that means? Emotionally. Towards you there's love, but there's also some kind of hiding going on here. I don't know. It's hard for me because it's like access granted social media, fake profile and hiding. So there's like. Today is the day I have to report. These recordings are going to be. Just sorry it hasn't been, We're going to go through summer. I have pre recorded also forterra readings. So one of these in here is it just remind you that I'm a mother without life, OK. There are some real love here that they have for you emotionally right now. They're kind of they're either hiding. Or this, you know, is only on social media. Or there's like, you know there's I don't know exactly how to read this card. I need to adjust make up my mind up about it sometimes I read it and I was. Wishing that they could, you know. Read it as like internal stocking. So I don't know if this is your this is someone you're with. They emotionally could be, you know, stalking you from within, you know what I mean? You know, like if you set your phone down to go, you know, to go have a shower, they're picking up your phone, you know what you mean? I can read it that. But it was within this, this emotional state. Because there's still love here. Mental state. You're having anxiety panics, you're scared over something. Um. Emotions are mentally, they're thinking this is a roller coaster. This seems like they need to keep an open mind too. Maybe they've just dealt with so many toxic people. What is your? Popsicle. Could be over some kind of embarrassment or getting over some kind of threatening fearing. Appearances. What do they need to get over? They need to get over being drawn magnetically to to get up out of this thing with you. You're feeling magnetically cold out. You will overcome this, like fear of being threatened or embarrassed by pretending that you're not. Um. They will come to some kind of realization. To why they're being magnets. I feel like they're either being magnetically drawn to you, yet they're trying to pull themselves up out of it in some way. So I feel like there's over there on their side, there's this real push and pull. Um again. They overcome that with some kind of realization between you both emotionally as a physical move location change with both of you are wanting to move. Or change your location in some way. Um, between you mentally is feeling like this is we're running out of time. Both are like you're running out of time. If things don't change. The outcome is clearing space, making space, removing negativity. So you could have this lost in sexual chemistry with one another. So it looks like the IT looks like you're on a one way track. It might be good. Right now. That's all. Go ahead it in forever. Who would say that? Oh my God I've been brain it's like. I don't. Like that song is playing, subtly muted in the back of my brain right now they're trying to pull the lyrics. Totally distracted. Reading Terror OK, why are you so? Why are you in such a masculine energy? Are you feeling so, so masculine? Because you're wanting to. You're wanting this because you're you're hoping and you're earning and you're wishing. You're either wishing for this man or you wished for this man or you're the very masculine energy. Because you're wanting to go out and get this. Because you're. You're having that kind of because masculine energy is the is the go get, you know what I mean? It's the go protect, it's the provider, it's the duo, right? And feminine energy is the the recipient, you know? Tell me about these toxic behaviors and other people that they're dealing with, right? It's something that they're reconciling or coming together feels very toxic to them. Or this coming together might feel toxic. People. Maybe they're in their headspace that they're dealing with a bunch. Maybe there's like a bunch of toxic people coming together. Maybe there's some kind of event coming up they're going to or something like that. Uh, in which you know, they have to reconcile the fact that they're going to be surrounded by toxic people, toxic behaviors. Or maybe they're dealing with this reconciliation energy by being toxic or doing toxic. To get by. Why? What's today emotionally? You're in the present moment. 18 Today, you really wanting you're wanting to rescue you wanting to be rescued, or you're wanting to involve others, or you're wanting to rescue them? So again, there's this rescue. Energy. Why do they feel like this relationship has been a roller coaster? They because of you've been there, focus, they've been focused on you or they've been watching you and it's been a roller coaster. Over here. You're panicking because of this drastic, extreme cut off. Or you're panicking. That's causing an extreme color. Maybe that's why they feel like it's a roller coaster. Because they're watching you. You're over here. Panicking, and it's coming off as an extreme color. It looks like. The end result here in this relationship, we gotta keep an open mind, OK? This person differs from the type or you're used to on your normal expectations about a relationship. You have to get over why you feel threatened or impaired. What happened? You're feeling way down. You want to explode. There's like a. Maybe you're. Embarrassed by an outburst that you've had recently or that that that you're just feeling so weighed down that you want to explode. It feels embarrassing that you're in the situation you're in. Again, you're going to get over this by just pretending. That you're not embarrassed. Pretending that you're not laid down. Pretending like you're not ready to explode. It looks like the outcome here is you both are going to remove some negativity from your life and this is going to open. The the gateway to this lost and desire. You just gotta keep an open mind. How do they feel about you? They're very committed. To building with you. They want to build stability with you. They trust you. You trust them. They want all of you. They want to be very greedy and they're angry because they can't be. But this makes them more determined. To do better and the sexual, let's play cards so they they want this chemistry with you. Have the chemist. OK, what would they say? About you behind your back. I was. I was just in my mind. I was just in my mind like. The prostitute, The prostitute. Where is the prostitute? Um. Again, they think you're they think you're so hot you. I don't know, maybe they want you. Maybe I should read this card as they want it. Ask for you. You can either escort in some way. I do not. I mean, I I literally said I every time I I I. I just have to laugh because, like again, we read this card as you're so hot. Or yourself, right? You can have an only fans or this person wants. They would pay you. You think you're Good Samaritan? They say. I don't know man, prostitute is such a hard. Don't take it negatively, OK? Take it as that in the ear. I mean, not, not very many people would you want to? You know. It's still easy. Call you Good Samaritans. Maybe you've done. Volunteer work session. Some courtesy. They think you're hot. OK, there again, they were so. Just pay you for it. More. Yeah, it's too. The officer see you as a thief. OK, so this sheds light on the potential wealth within. So you've stolen their heart. They would pay you for sex. They think that you're hot enough that you could be. Or that maybe you this like if if this isn't sexual. Maybe they think you sold out in? You know what I mean? I maybe we should look at this prostitute card as as a. Um, you stole in their heart, but they also think that you're a really good person. So I feel like they're a little upset. They're like you. Next to you. Person different. For your normal type or expectation. Maybe you just have a lot of. You know what I mean? Did you find that? Or you've been on tender. You should use that card. I'm like literally sitting there my head. You are going to scream my name. You are about to be punished. All right, so they're going to punish you? Tie me to the bed and take bullet. All right, so you're in control. You know what I mean? Don't know why I just got. Let's see what happens. Bears with that prosecute card comes out as a terrible. Yeah. Was someone getting jerked off? Morning sex. And lots of data handling. Two cards of her handling deck wants classes and the other one is hard. Morning sex card. So. So again. This. What is the advice? You're angry because you feel left out and that makes you sad. The mother, whoever this mother is, is sorry. Another sorry. About the messages, because it really brings it to an end. Like kills the. Again, you really have. There's someone really upset here about getting left out, and it's really sad because the mother here is really sorry about the messages. You know, because now they're over. Now it ends. It ends the the fantasy. It ends the fantasy. But then there's this gift that's all for or. Or this proposal which needs reconciled by making a choice. And the choice is decide. And secret. Someone's going to return here or someone's going to be successful and that is the that's destined to happen. So someone here is, you know, whoever we're talking about. OK, so again someone's upset because they feel left out and has made them set this. Again, the mother here is sorry. God, because the the messages come to an end, the messages themselves and the. Ohh the Daydream, the fantasy. Here is this gift. Offer proposal here is someone holding up something right and that needs to be reconciled in some way. But here are the choices to suffer. And see. So someone's been suffering in secret. Maybe back to this. They feel like they've been on this roller coaster. Being focused on you is maybe toxic to them. Maybe that's the problem again. Someone here ends up returning or is very successful and there's destined love here. So the decisions have been made in this particular scenario to love. OK. So this person has made the decision to love you. Ohh. Like again, they're reconciling. They're toxic. Behaviors or the toxic people around them, or the toxicity that is this relationship to. Because again, your panic causes this drastic cut off. It looks like there's not much you're gonna do because it looks like there's dust. And this is the Destin love. Destined for love is the and line. Here. We'll do one more line. Yeah, this is just a mind trap. You're just mind trapped once you make the decision. Just a little mind trap. So you just need to make a decision. You just need to make a decision to fight through it, to fight through this. Feeling like you're embarrassed or feeling like. You know this, your spanic, this drastic again, you're just mind trapped right now, so you need to make the decision to fight through this, and that's the truth. You need to fight through this, these emotions, otherwise you're going to regret it. The mother gets left out in the cold. The mother gets left out in the cold and it causes this stress. And but I shall choose a new beginning, a very lucrative. It's over. Because it's over. So she'll choose a different whoever is the mother in this scenario for you. Again, there's like this left out. And stress that is associated with this Empress, right? And you don't necessarily think that's you? Um, again. She makes the choice. Because of money. And that pretty much brings everything to an end. She's a bitch. So. Again, whoever is the mother in this scenario, whether this is like their baby Mama drama. Ohh, maybe it's your mother, I don't know. It's the mother associated with your with you. It's saying you need to think about this, you need to contemplate it because it's very strong, the chemistry is very strong. That's why you need to keep an open mind. And you would have a very strong home and it would be happy the sun. So this if you can get over whatever is the hiccup here with your appearance and feeling way down and wanting to explode. If you can kind of get over this and pretend on on your way out and get over this anxiety. This relationship, think about it is going to is going to be loyal, it's going to be strong, it's going to be a great foundation, it's going to be a beautiful home and it's going to make you happy. The sun. So the cars are all saying this, though this relationship might give you moments of. Worry. Was is it worth it? Is it? You know, is it a trap? Yadda yadda yadda. It will lead to a very strong relationship. Again, they're dealing with toxicity. On their side. Your aboriginal dream totem is a assuredness. It's time to challenge this situation. And say this is not good enough. Stand tall and and take a stand. It's time to show the world just how damn tough you are. So you are tough enough. To face whatever. Is is your concern right over here. Whatever is weighing you down, whatever is making you so angry you wouldn't explode. Whatever is affecting your appearance. OK, you're just going to pretend on through it? And this will help you get over this panic once you cleanse this negativity, this relationship. This relationship will work. You're tough enough. That's what the cards say. So you're definitely tough enough to deal with this. Whatever, you know. Whatever is the situation. You got this. That's what the cards are saying. You got this. You're not a prostitute. I just really shouldn't. Is it always puts me in this situation? I don't. Deal with. Alright, I will be back with the Earth side. That's the fucking problem. I really. But again, let's just take it as a You're that fucking. OK. You are hot enough to be, you know, to have a sugar daddy. Or a shower mom. That's that's what I should. OK

Earth:

OK, first. Really Quieted love. There's not enough attraction or chemistry to keep this relationship going. You need to get to know each other better. As you reveal your innermost selves to each other, your bond deepens. So. Right now. There's just not enough attraction, so you're gonna need to build it. Yeah, you need to build the attraction. So you need to get to know each other better because they're, I mean, you know, looks are only skin deep. Like once someone kind of knows your personality or sense of humor. So much more. That is true. What is your overall? You don't want to protect yourself. They're very nasty. You're kind of confined emotionally. They're feeling crushed emotionally. You wanna take a trip? You wanna vacation? Right now. There. Thinking about writing about this. Just getting out of this locked, frustrated stage. They have to get over some kind of obsession that they have. Last relationship obsession. You will get out of this frustration with having a conversation with this person, getting to know them. They will overcome this obsession that they have. By triggering themselves into simpler. So is this person that's involved. Between your emotionally is only 15 only having access to each other on social media. Between you mentally is that this is a risk outcome. Here is physical location change you're going to, there's a move. If nothing changes, someone's moved. OK. Why are you so, like, confined and frustrated? Because you're dealing with a drama queen, someone who's causing chaos, and that's why you really feel like. Talk about. Why are they so masculine? Because they're protecting themselves against retaliation from this drama. By being very ghostly at all. Again, they're sad because they feel like the time has run out. Why are they writing about? You're writing about. You're writing about how drastic? This feels so drastic. Cut off being ghosted feels like you would be too dramatic. So they might think that you're the drama queen. They might think you're a drama. That's why you need to let this person see more of your personality. Again, someone needs to move. This is again coming down the pipe. What's your emotional emotions towards you? They're loyal. They want to be loyal towards you. You're very seductive and that's the truth. You're extremely so. Like if you're thinking that they're not into it. That's not true, but you're very seductive. You just need to get to know this person. They're really sorry that they're already committed. So this person is in a relationship. They're really sorry that they're in a commitment. Again, they're they're afraid about retaliation, about getting ghosts and lost or walked in some way. They might be married to a drama queen. Again, they're sorry that they're already committed. You know, but they're loyal. They're. I almost feel like this person is telling you they're loyal, even though you're seductive. And that's true. It makes them feel sorry that they're committed Again, their obsession with you is going to trigger them into singlehood. It's going to trigger it. So you might think that there's not enough attraction or chemistry. But the more you get to know each other, the more you'll see that that's not true. There's lots of chemistry. They have lots of chemistry towards you. You're sitting here feeling frustrated, confined because they're already in a relationship, possibly marriage, and they have access to each other on social media. It feels like a risk, but the outcome is someone is moving. So the the chemistry between you has already changed, triggered this person into an obsessive state. In which? They're gonna get single. OK. How would they say behind your back, they would say that you're a Good Samaritan, that you help people that others would prefer to ignore, that you're also very mystical or mysterious? And one more. But you're also companion. This companion clear keeps going up, which is very sweet that you're a really good companion. And and Earth signs are good companions. They're very stable. There's very stable companions. Would they sexed you? Tickle and lick your nipples. That naughty little schoolgirl outfit. You need a spank. My head between your legs, I want you to dress up. I wanna sax. I love your stomach, your like your hips, all that you are, you are just perfect so this person is very much into you. So you may be thinking. That this person is not answering, but they are very much into you. That's the last thing they came to. It was a definite, I mean, just throwing gay sex out. But again, for heterosexual that means, you know, mutual orgasms. So it could be one of those. Real female orgasm. Again, there's some. BDSM here. Some kind of rapey kind of sex, but then also. You know, this woman's in a yoga pose and he's playing with her pussy. So yoga. Some kind of yoga porn? Some kind of BDS? Some kind of foot fetish, Possibly gay socks. But we can read that as real female orgasm. What is the advice here for you? Stay single. You're single. Stay single. Being single will be the choice. It is definitely manifesting. The messages are absolutely loved. We love the messages. And they're sorry that you are upset. They want to reconcile so that they can be happy. Alright, so something happened here between the two of you because you're locked down. They're over there, feeling crushed. All right. So I don't know if this was some like if you've been texting with a married person. Or something like that. Um. It's going to trigger them into singlehood. Okay. Definitely singlehood is the decision. It is going to manifest. The messages were absolutely loved. They're sorry that they created some kind of upset, but they're going to reconcile this. To be happy, Yeah. Real big happiness. So you're gonna reconcile whatever just happened with this person and what you made you feel like it was unrequited or made them feel like it was unrequited. You're going to reconcile this and it's going to lead to happiness. So you're sitting there thinking it's it's unrequited, or they're thinking it's unrequited. But you just need to get to know each other a little bit better. And so, you know, I would really encourage you to ask more questions. This obsession that they have with you is only going to lead to them being single. So just give it some time. All right. And go ahead and continue to plan your vacation. Alright, go take hot pics on the beach and post this on your. It will help. Discretion. That's your that's your Aboriginal dreaming totem this week. Friendships are fantastic when there is equality in the relationship. Maybe it's time to undertake a quick audit of your friendships to ensure that they are reciprocal. So in the meantime while you're waiting for this person to. To be triggered into singlehood. You should be discreet, but you should also audit all your friendships and make sure that they are reciprocal. And if they're not, it's time to, you know, drop a few. A few of those friendships. So it's asking you to take take an audit of your the relationships that you have already and kind of maybe deal with this drama queen that's in your life right now that's causing you this issues making you feel so confined, whether that be their drama queen or your drama queen, Whoever is, it's on your side. So I feel like. We're dealing with the drama queen. Again. You will get over this frustration by just having a conversation. This is 1 conversation about getting to know each other better, and then you're going to realize how much this person actually does. Wanna relationship with you. OK. Alright. That was a good reading. Get to know them all better. OK? Yeah.

Fire:

My first. This week. My son is home sick so. So there's a little bit of child ambiance here. Normal. Extra noise. Also, please forgive me, I do have all of the summer, a big chunk of the summer reading stuff, so there shouldn't be any interruption. This is a past life relationship. You have known this person before, so this is someone you've known. Are you had a relationship with in the past? What is your overall energy? I don't know if this is like, you know, spiritually you've been this person in the past life, but. Someone like you've known past, you know what I mean? Your overall energy is wanting to come together and reconcile this one. You're in a reconciliation. Energy. What's theirs? There we go. Crickets. Silence. Sorry, we're in the silent auction. Emotionally, there's an offer or proposal or commitment is on the table with this person Emotionally. They want proof. They want you to show them that you you know that you have these emotions for them. Mentally, you're kind of feeling trapped and frustrated right now it comes to this person. Mentally, they're feeling very weighed down by this relationship. It's either anchoring them or they feel like they're in chains and they can't get to it again. There's some something that's in the way. What is the obstacle for you? I love affair Obstacle is a love affair. So maybe there's only a love affair in here, getting over the fact that it would be a love affair. They have to overcome waves of their emotions coming and going. So this person might be on antidepressants. I don't know why this said that, but how does that feel? You know where they're like, you know or they might be kind of emotions might be coming and going. So they might be writing kind of a way of. You will overcome this love affair, secret energy, which is what's getting in your way by avoiding it. So I don't know if there's another welfare on the table. You're going to avoid it. Or if the offer proposal on the table is to have a love affair, you're still going to try to avoid the actual secret love affair. They will overcome these waves of emotion, these coming and going by the fact that they're in love. Between you emotionally is some spontaneous, like some kind of spontaneous emotion, maybe a surprise visit or some sort of emotionally. That's between you and. Financial support, child alimony or government support, so someone's got children. And there's a financial aspect of it that's that's being brought to to the, you know, to the mind, what's the outcome if nothing changes? Panic. Anxiety. OK. What, emotionally do they need proof of? Of the past women. History of emotionally There's proof. About some kind of past. Woman. Let me proof of some history. Of could be a feminism, could be a feminine energy. I'm not sure. Tell me about this contagious emotion between the two. Has to do with variety. Motional You both want to spontaneously right one another. Why are you feeling so frustrated, right? Straight. Because it's a risk. Yeah, I feel like like this is a past life relationship, so. This is someone you've. This is someone you've known each other before. OK, this is someone you know. And again, you don't want to have a love affair with them. You're trying to avoid a lot of. That's your obstacle here. Still avoid a lot of. Again, you're feeling very frustrated because it feels like a risk. Why are they so weird? Because they're feeling sad, they feel alone. They just feel weighed down by. You know, emotion, emotional stress. Between your balls is thinking about child. The outcome is anxiety. There is anxiety about pursuing this relationship, but there's going to be a realization or something is going to come to awareness and this will be project and this project, this projects us into the future. Yeah, it's gonna create a focus, but it's gonna create focus on. Are are on them, so they really emotionally they want proof. They see that, They see the past. They see you in the past as a very feminine energy. OK. Um. Or in the past. Or there's a difference between who you are now or who you were in the past, I'm not sure. Again, there's proof. They want emotionally. They want proof. Again, there's a lot of anxiety about pursuing this. Because of something coming to awareness. Yeah, it's projected. Something's going to come to awareness and this is going to be projected into the future. There is focus. They are watch. How do? We feel compassionate. They think that you care when no one else did. They think that you're beautiful. They're feeling very desperate. And board in that particular current state. And they're feeling very. They want to be irresponsible. But they're afraid that he saw how dark they. Might not like. They feel very far away from you. Feel this distance and it really makes them upset. OK, so they're at a distance from you. How would they describe you? As the victims. Well, you can have a victim of. Say that you've been. They would also call you a guide. Representing. An Angel. That's very sweet. So they would, they would say that you've been victimized before? They would say that you guide. And they would say that you're an Angel, that you help those in need with no expectation. Of return that is very. That would be. I can feel myself pulsating when I think about you. Asked, grabbing boots. Wait. Bitchy, right? You're soaking wet and. It gives me chills. Have you ever? That always happens to like Winston gets sick. Maybe he's faking it and then, like a day later, I get it. What was the? Watched it was outdoors. Ohh. She's on top. It was a blowjob. There was also. So it was about. It says outdoor sex. She's got a sun dress. What is? Advice. Again, if you make any decision right now, it will be a loss. Will make the. You really need to reconcile. Work together. This kind of wands this. He will move on. I want you to move on. So if you're trying to avoid a lot of. That's in the way of this relationship, he. OK, so you need to make a decision that it's a lose lose. But you also need to reconcile and continue to work with this one that you like. This other guy will. Right. So if you just stop. Doing whatever you're doing. You know what I mean? Maybe it's. Maybe you don't even realize, but it's secret. You know you need to avoid a lot of. Fair, though, you want to avoid a lot of. The family, the money, the abundance. Again, there's like. It's sneaky. There's some kind of sneak at all. Again, because. Because you don't think you're strong enough for the fight. Again, your money. So you're sneaking off because again, you're either too strong to fight or you're strong enough to fight. You're. Look, this is a lose lose situation. Whichever way you decide, OK, you do need to reconcile and work with this person. This came along, he will move on. OK, he will move on. This is going to create this abundance and the stability that you like, but yet you're sneaking off. Because you think that you either you think that you're not strong enough for the fight or. Because there's going to be a fight, a big one. And he thinks that this person will choose. The selfish person. Fatherhood is very scary. Transformative for sure, surely. Slowly but surely. You know, someone's really feeling alone, getting old. This guy that you like is feeling like he's getting. Again. Make the decision that it's a lose lose situation. Reconcile with the work, or reconcile and work together. And you will, you will see this king of Wands move on. And you might only be here for money. Right, it might be. Again, it's throwing 10 of pinnacles there. There's a a needing to sneak off from the flight. If you sneak off. From this fight, which you're strong enough to to to to fight, he will choose the selfish woman. If he's pulling away. Like he's over here on your side, on the other side, wanting improve. Yet there's this history of women. History of feminism or history of? Being feminine. Feeling way down, crushed. He's like going, you know your other person, It could be he or she is. They're they're going through all these waves of emotion. That's why they're in silence. If you don't fight this fight. Sure, what? Whoever she is. The selfish bitch. It's talking about fatherhood being scary. Scared to death about father? And the reality is, surely this person is getting older. This. It's calling him a campus, and that I always read that as the man you want. He's got emotions about getting older. So this these emotions that are coming and going, I think they're have to do with age. Age does fuck with your head a little bit. You. Maybe there's this energy of you're just too old to like. Start over. You know what I mean? More advice for my fire signs here. This bitch will move on. The bitch is going to move on. Shoulder at this from this childish Dick. But they're just going to move on from this childish deck. Because he's a childish deck. And that defends love. And then again, there's this defensive law. Then there's this. Just sorry for the suffering for money. Sorry. It was just suffering for money, suffering for a handout. So this woman caused this suffering just for a handout? You're going to be successful either way about it. Or this person is going to return one way or the other? Your public messages. Either are getting blocked or have defended you. Maybe this woman's been blocking your messages. It's saying you need to fight for this. This mother is just heartbreaking. The decisions this woman makes as a mother or heartbreaking. So whoever is your person, your person might have a baby Mama. And the decision she makes? When it comes to motherhood or heartbreaking. So she's not a good parent. Says my kid screams playing video OK. Important. Again, all this anger it it. It makes everything fall apart. They're this dream that they have is really, they're really wishing for it and they're really contemplating it because it's very strong. So you've got your, you've got your hooks in this one. Ohh. Yeah. Very strong sex. Very good sex. You kind of share. Yeah. It seemed Go ahead and cheat this bitch. Fuck it. This is this is this is a normal. From. From 5:30 until 9:00. This is how he plays radio. Normal vibrate. That was the place. Moments of. I have to Reeve I have to fix this desk though because usually. Anyway, the sound really. A lot. He's playing his video game. Which is interesting. OK, it's saying this is going to be this. This is really strong sex between. OK. It's saying you can cheat into this. If you cheat, you will be committed to one another publicly. Saying go ahead and. You will still be committed to one another publicly. So. It's not like if you cheat with this person, you're going to be a dirty little secret and and you know, tossed away. You know, it's saying if you cheat, go ahead and cheat with this person. Their relationship is trash that they're dealing with right now. Go ahead and cheat. And this will this is strong enough that you will be committed to one another and it will be public, a public commitment. So even if you cheat with this person, you'll still have a very much a public commitment with this person. So. You know what I mean, so go ahead and. Make the effort almost feels like. If you want this person. You know, I know you're wanting to avoid welfare. But they are. They need proof. Any proof? Get you Aboriginal. They're both emotionally designed for write one another spontaneously. So you both think about writing. Or texting with others in the spontaneous way, so you must have this person's phone number. The card is Joy. Lighten up. Find that hidden inner child and have a playdate. Laugh, be silly, dance and sing. It's time to have fun again, Yeah. Go have a play date with this person. Even if it's just friendship, go have fun. Lighten up. Play be Sir. Dance. Sing how fun with this person and let it happen. You know, not all cheating scenarios are negative and not all, not all of them have negative karma. It depends on the relationship. Not all men that that end up cheating are cheaters either. You know what I mean? They they feel trapped in situations in which they can't get out of morally unless they are in love or get caught cheating. So you know the energy here in your reading is just go ahead. She don't end up you'll end up having a public relationship with this person anyway. So you know who gives a shit? If there's love again, they overcome these waves of motion that they have by being in love. So there's love here. They love you. So. You know what this law for example like not passed in front and get some joy. You don't have to, you know. You don't have to. Sit there and break up these people, I mean. Really. Item. It's up for. It's up for discussion. For discussion, I will be back with.

Love Note:

OK. Sweet. There's two way cards. We will talk about. The assets of waiting. I think it's really sweet though, because this Warrior Woman card came out. I forget what deck this is. The boxes. It's a beautiful day. Cards. But I think it's interesting. A lot of warrior archetypes. The readings lately that where card keeps coming out so. I'm like, sitting here like I'm talking to a warrior right now. Which? Is humbling as a as a. Person. Have gone through so much and would. And put it important. That means a lot, so I just. Take my warrior women out there that are listening. That is what the terror. That is how the terror. So this is for my warrior women. Ohh. We will talk about the essence of waiting here. Don't. Don't rush. I am in. Thoughtfully. You are so. Expands about. Relationship. I realized that our love keeps on and. Good. 30. So much. That's. If you want. To continue. To bring into this. I won't. I can't. So. So this is asking you to wait, and if you are. A warrior. If you are a leader, you know it. It it's difficult to weigh whether to wait. To see how things progress. Or whether to move on quickly because we all know. You know, we all know the regret of missed opportunities, right? And we can't always see every angle of an opportunity until it's gone past us. Right then we see the back end of it. But. There is. But essence here you're reading that's asking you to wait. So the question becomes, do you have the time? To wait because again, you are an important person. Do you have the time to wait? And let this devour. Or do you need to move on and ask the question? You really have to ask yourself. So the cards were away. Don't rush into anything. Allow nature to take its course. I don't want to lose you, I am manifesting you. So they're currently trying to create. Uh. You know a place in which you can manifest. By the book, which is so sweet, three elephants of different sizes. They're following in a line. Narrow pathway Tread thoughtfully. You are special to me. I am waiting for an apology. That was wrong. Expanded awareness, love indoors, love does not. Give up or lose faith. Love is hopeful and withstands every situation. You are good enough. The full moon and Virgo. Warrior woman. You have answered your deepest calling, Gratitude, Leadership. It's time for you to assume your leadership power and position and lovingly guide other. It's OK to move on. Legacy of Light, Distant Horizon. I won't give up on you, so don't give up. I am ready to leave and bring you back. I can't wait to dance with you into eternity. The Moonlight card. Marry me fulfillment and wait. OK, so. Question. Is this person more? Question. You. Waiting. Their selfish. Selfish, but the feelings are mutual. They're selfish, but the feelings are mutual. That's probably why they want you to wait. They do say it's OK. That. Almost their way of saying that. It's saying like you can defend the stream. You just this this. Fantasy This dream you have with this, with this particular person you defend. You can move on, move on, you know, move on, move on. But you're still committed to this. We're still committed to the heartbreak of. You're still committed to the heartbreak. So it's saying this person is a little bit selfish, but they do. Again, this stream is being defended. Or the dream is being blocked. Let me double check. Putting these emperors. He holds on to this, the emperor's dream, and he holds on to this so. Whatever this person has in their mind for you, they're going to hold on to. So does that change your mentality? They're selfish, but the feelings are mutual. They're gonna hold on to the. 3. You can. You can move on, move on. That could be you committing to heartbreak. If you move on, move on, it's both move on. Move on from the thoughts and move on from emotions. And then Hairpin and three of swords. A commitment of heartbreak. So you can move on, move on, but you're that's just a commitment and heartbreak. You're what you're really, what's really going on here is you are. Umm. You are kind of. Stocking your head when it comes to the move or to some trip? Really trapped in your head while you're move or? Of row. Possibly getting a folder? It's. This is manifest. It is manifested, but it will manifest a choice. So. This person is selfish. OK. That's the truth. All right, but the feelings are mutual. The man in the scenario is going to hold on to this dream. The the fantasy, the dream. The Daydream gets defended. If you move on, move on. It's OK, You're committing to heartbreak. What's what's going on is you're actually trapped in your head about the move, the trip, or the distance, and maybe going it alone or feeling alone or feeling like you're getting too old for this shit. But it's going to, it's going to create a decision. Whatever this chariot is for you, whether it is a move, a trip. Um. It's gonna create the decision and the decision is going to be to love. And then it's got stranded on the bottom and Ace of Swords and Two of Cups. So that on the deck is, you know, strength, loyalty. That is the truth of this relationship. So this relationship will have a lot of strength and loyalty. So in that in that way it is worth waiting for. I see a lot of hand holding in the carbs as I'm looking at this. The gratitude has a really, she's like holding his hand with both hand. There's like this real? Hand holding energy. So what's trapping you in your head is the move. So I don't know if you have to move towards this person or if. You need to take a trip. Is an aspect of feeling alone, or feeling like you know you're getting too old for this or. You know, there's this hermit here, so there's either like, an aspect of alone or an aspect of age. Ohh. It's going to create. This place for the decision to be made to love. So this note is asking you are you making the decision? What are you making the decision out out of? Because if you love someone, if you really love them, you will wait. Alright, there's also many love songs. The 80s was full. Songs about. Wait. You know. It's like if it's if it's really. If it's really. Love you. So. I guess that's a question to ask yourself. If you really love this person. Because if you were, if you do. If you do. Wait. If you don't. I guess. Yeah. That aspect of. Do you really love them? Is shown in Whether You Wait. And I'm not sitting here saying that you should wait. I mean, I should. I'm sitting here saying if you love this person. If there if you see aspects. Of you know of their intent of. You know of their love for you back. As we get trapped in. 3. You could look at it as an aspect of you weren't ready for something new or something different, and so sometimes, you know you get hung up on people. Just to protect yourself. So the question really becomes, are you waiting because you love this person or are you using this time of waiting? Because you were protecting your. Right. Because sometimes we. You know, catch. We're going to protect ourselves. Whoever catches feelings. Sometimes you catch feelings for people that aren't necessarily good. At the end of the day, it does call this person selfish. So you know you're gonna be dealing with a very selfish part. You're gonna have to wait on. You know if there's two weight cards here. How many times are you going to have to stand there and wait for? You know, there's some people. It's really, it's really a personal question. First and foremost, if you love them, the answer would be of course. But then why? Is it Is it self preservation? It looks like this person though. Is going to hold on. To the dream. We talk a lot in this episode about. The change that has occurred. 50 years between men and women and how relationships are start. Very rarely. Initiate relationships. Which is weird, OK, because you know now all these the have all these masculine, feminine. Out there and it's funny because you look at like grade school. In middle school. And it really is like the women are out to get these dudes. The girls are out to get it these days. It's obvious. They're the ones interested first, right? And then after puberty it kind of flips around. But. Men are not, you know, maybe it's because they have access to pornography. Maybe it makes. The need to have a girlfriend less, I don't know, like what the cultural or psychological reason that men don't. Instigate relationships anymore so you know if this person is special to you. You know. Waiting. For them might be forever. Do you know what you mean? Because men just don't. I mean, they'll do stuff like, you know, like a post. Watch all your reals or your. Stories, right? Like, you can tell if a guy likes you. If he is engaging with you. Aren't enough through social media? Or, you know, if it's someone at work or something like that? You know, they they make special. You know, special times to come over and talk to you and things like that, you know? Uh. So there is an aspect that, you know, men have taken this more feminine role when it comes to relationship development. So that's again something. Something you have to ask yourself. You know. They wanna drop a few more hands, make it feel safe for this one to come out since they're asking me to wait. It's it's such a hard decision to wait or not to wait. Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, I got them. I can always use your support on them, whatever app, podcast listening app that you're on. Yeah, you know, I really need a review, especially if you're one of my Pod Chaser or Podcast Attic listeners. I don't have very many reviews on those platforms, and reviews are extremely helpful. It's my overall algorithm overall show, so if you really want to help me out. Appreciate the reading. Take a minute and do that for me. Figure that out for me on what? Fabulous. You know, next week is around 60. 69 Show so make sure. Sure you marked the date? OK. Um, you guys have a good week. This is a sweet love note. Uh, I can't tell you whether you should wait or not. Read the cards. It looks like if you move on from this. It's committing to some kind of heartbreak, so. I don't know what. How's the?