Send Pics: Channeling Your Inner Playboy Bunny
Episode 59
Summary:
There is no such thing as sending a “safe” sexy pic. And think about how you’ve shown your friends the unsolicited dick pics you’ve received. It’s a fantasy to think those are private. Regardless, it’s fun to take pics and get attention from men. So how do you best protect yourself? This week we share tips for taking and protecting your pics. The recommendation is don’t hit send, but taking pics is an amazing exercise to learn self-love. The benefits outweigh the momentary high of sexting. So take them for yourself. Find all those parts of yourself you love and learn to love the parts that make you insecure.
The tarot readings were very Playboy bunny this week. Sporty bunny, straight-up playmate, and all about money!
Lots of great advice, and here is the link to that popular science article with all the cyber-savvy information:
https://www.popsci.com/science/how-to-take-nudes/
Sporty Bunny: 00:12:40
Playboy Bunny: 00:38:01
$100: 00:59:30
Send Pics: 01:17:46
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Intro: This is this is the pic send pic episode. We talked about taking pics. We talked about sending pics. We talked about security. Yeah, I mean, if you're going to be sexy with a man that you should see his Dick first. I I I think that's just a good rule of thumb right there, you know, because that way at least you have his deck on your phone. If he's got your titties. Ohh, you're pushing on his right? It's safe to assume that if he's not on your doorstep. Fucking you. And you're sexy with him that he's probably in a relationship he's probably got. A girlfriend. So it is pretty safe to assume that because sexting is more of a complete thing, it's more of a a cheating thing, right? We didn't really. We we talked a little bit about the cheating aspect of. Of sending packs and and that kind of mentality that we didn't get too much into that. In this week's Sex segment, which again is all about taking picks, protecting yourself the best you can. But let's remember that at the end of the day, when you send a pic, you are exposing yourself. And the overall cultural view of sacks and women and of exposure, exploitation, rape, etcetera, is you put yourself there. It's that mentality of if you got raped, it's because you went to the wrong place or you were to provocative clothing or you turned a man on, you know what I mean? Or you were sexually made a sexual advance so that therefore, you know, whatever happened to you was because you, you know. Allowed it to, right? You took the drink from him and you don't remember the rest of the night mentality. OK, so we live in a world where it's a victim. Shamed. So the moment you become a victim. Of exploitation, black male or anything like that. It's your fault because you exposed yourself. If you've sexed it in the past, most likely you have been exposed. How? How? Public. Public enough. Most likely. Public enough, depending on, you know, how many people wanted to see you nude or half nude, etcetera. Yeah, those are the realities. Those are the realities of Saxony, if any of my underage listeners. Yeah, yeah, he's asking for pics. Yeah, you want to feel special. Yeah, you want that mentality. But it ain't. It's not worth being exposed. And and it's illegal. So if you are one of my listeners that's underage, remember that. If someone's asking you for that, even if they are your same age, it's still illegal. All right. So something to keep in mind for my my super young listeners, which, you know, in this day and age, anybody can listen to a podcast, right? I can put all sorts of explicit labels on anything and it doesn't matter. But yeah, it's important. That you protect yourself. At the very least, you cut off your your head. Alright, so cut off your head despite your pussy. So I should call this episode? But yeah so we we do we talk about our I feel like that I feel like it was an hour so there's a really nice hour long segment on the on the whole mentality and and I like I said at the end at the end of it all. Take pics for yourself. Take your pics. Make yourself feel sexy. You don't need some man to look at your pics for you to feel sexy about your pics. We live in a day and age where, again, you know, men don't. You know they can go get pornography anytime on their they're in the bathroom, they're watching porn. Alright, they can look at pussy all day long, forever, and never see the same pussy. So you know, ruthless. Remember, you're pushing that special even though they're going to make you feel like it was your special until they get your pushy shot. But at that point then, right? Exposure. So depending on. But you got going on. You know, you have to think about that. Like if you are a high valued woman, let's say your public figure of some sort, you have a job that has a, you know, a very high status, like a doctor, a lawyer, a teacher. Those all put you at higher risk because any kind of exposure in those kind of situations either means, you know, money or or it could hurt your career. So for my young listeners, you know those that you're in your 20s, yeah, you're hot, yeah, you're beautiful. And yes, you should flaunt it if you have it. Three, but those things can tend to come back and get you in the end and and you do need to to realize that men have women in two different categories. One category is porcelet Internet. Four that's where I go to masterbate, right. And then they have the other one and the ones that that they you know. Might be in a relationship call their own. Right. So there's a different, you know, they they view women differently and yeah, they're going to try to see how slowly you really are. That's the game. So make sure that if you're if you are playing the pick game 16 game that you edge as much as fucking possible. You know, draw it out. But also remember that as you create sexual tension, you create sexual rage within men and that can come back to get you whether the relationship doesn't work out or you don't get to the sexual relationship. I like sexting because you know, in the end, you know, I get to know about. Person better. You know and you know whether I want to add that person to my list or not. You know what I mean? So at the end of the day, you know it is an interview type scenario, right? You're interviewing someone as your sexual partner. So that you know the 16. Sessions really do give you a lot of information about the person. You know, hopefully you get in those situations. Slowly right and you build tension. You build flurry, but you should always have it in the back of your mind that this person could. Betray you at any fucking moment. So you know you want to protect yourself as much as possible while trying to again find possible partners for your for your future relationships. And in this day and age, you know, even if you do get exposed in some way, it doesn't. Really. Sorry. It's just a naked, beautiful body and it's one of eight billionaire out there. You know, so if you if you are or have been a victim. Of being exposed or exploited in some way when it comes to your pets. Just remember, at the end of the day, it's not that big. I. Even if he really trusted that person. Just another fucking pussy pig and the sea of millions and build. Right. But at the end of the day, it's important to remember that they're most likely not going to jerk off to your busy, right? There's porn. So let's keep some reality. As we play the game of sexting and that it is a game. Right. So right. Keep that in mind and remember that. You know, if they don't get that gratification that is the orgasm, you know they are going to be upset with. Alright, so things to keep in mind. Just kind of an intro. So yeah, stick around after all the readings. Lots of bunnies. In the readings this week, we had Bunny with a tennis racket and we had a Bunny head. So two first readings are are Bonnie it's not even Easter yet even though Easter is in March guys. Yeah. Really got too soon. And then we had the $100 bill. That one was interesting. So yeah, Bunny, tennis Bunny, Bunny head, and $100 bill. Those are the choices this week. You can find the time for any of those in the description. If you want to jump ahead, stick around for our sexy pig taking. You know, segment I I did read. I'd like to give my references. The articles that I got some, you know, some information, what I feel like it was kind of. I have. I don't I clear my tabs off regularly, but I got 44 tabs open. This one was Batgirl. Bad Girl Bible. So bad girl bible.com was one of my. My. Ohh and Popular Science. So a complete guide to how to safely take sand and store news. This Popular Science article is really good because it did give. Some really great suggestions when it comes to cyber protecting yourself. As far as you know, platforms to use to send nudes that don't allow screenshots but still not, you know, 100% safe. But they also gave a lot of great safety advice when it comes to protecting yourself. So that was, again Popular Science. And then that Batgirl Bible is where I got some of the information as I was preparing this. And then of course, I used some of my own. You know, experience. So enjoy the show, take some great news, take some great sexy shots and remember, at the end of the day, doesn't have to be about titties and and your clit. It can be. I can just be about in the window. And sometimes, like, you don't even have to send yourself. You can send. You know, hot memes. Ohh pics that you find on the Internet like you didn't like this motif right? And you can send it to him to to build tension and sexual chemistry as. And like I said it, you know, don't be fucking with people that you don't want to fuck. You know, at the end of the day, as a woman, it's really important for your safety. That you don't be fucking with men. That you wouldn't fuck. Alright, so just because that one dude ask you for pics and you feel shitty today and you want the attention, but you know you're not going to have sex with him, Don't send, don't send them, don't do That one. That's that's the one that's going to get you in. Great at the end of the day. Really. Take a moment and think why? Why are you attracted to sending pics? Why are you doing this? And again, it's fulfilling some need that you have for your own attention. You're looking for self validation and self love outside of yourself. You take pics, take them for yourself. See the beauty in your own body. No matter what size or cup you. Alright, and get creative. Get the weather cream out, get the bubbles out. Remember that. Your lips your. It's just so sexy as your pussy. Alright, enjoy the show.
Bunny tennis:
Alright, let's see. It's a Bunny with a tennis racket. Alright. Bracket. Alright. Describe the situation. Bunny Rabbit. There's a there's an A need to get up out of a current situation because it's causing too much pressure. Again, there's there's some real love here and I need to come together. The reconcile in some way. OK, so there's a need to come up and out of something that's going on, alright? It's causing a lot of pressure, it's causing a lot of anger. There is real love in this situation and you know they there's a love that would love to come come together, possibly reconcile this is someone you've been with before or trash it. Like if you don't get up out of this situation that's causing so much anger, this situation will be disregarded. What don't you know about their situation that? Help you make better decision. Someone's really avoiding. Avoiding the cut off. Um. And the single status, so someone's really in avoidance. You're like either. You know, they're cutting things off. We have the single status here, and something's coming into awareness. So someone's really been avoiding unless someone wants to be in a relationship because someone's really avoiding. Becoming single, right. But they're gonna make this. They've they've had this realization. Something has come to the their awareness. Because of the memory. And you know, it's leading to absolute silence. So if they're in a relationship right now. It has the feeling like they're like there's, you know, this deafening silence. And avoidance. Which ultimately will lead to singlehood sooner or later, right? But the the, the silence, the the, the cut off. And their particular relationship is initially to avoid becoming single. So whatever is happening in the relationship, if they talk too much, it would lead, it would lead to a breakup. So again, there's they're coming to some kind of realization. Because they, because of some kind of recall. They're like, you know, having some kind of memory of the past and you know, it's leading back to this silence. So it looks like they've been triggered in some way. You know what I mean? I'm not really sure here how would they describe you? But no, wait, sorry, how do they feel about your presence and their life? They're really afraid to open themselves up and they don't know what choices to make right now because they feel so limited, like they don't have very many choices that they could make. They they are. They know what they want, though. OK, so they just don't know how to get there. They feel limited, but they know what they want. And they they Your strength really inspires them. So they're feeling very stuck and you know, in this kind of avoidance running away kind of energy. Maybe you got ghosted because you're single, I'm not sure. Or you know they're ghosting. They're like and you don't know about this particular situation, so. Again, if if couples are using silence, all that does is create a chasm in which you know they have to cross later and it gets so large. This is how you know couples lose their relationship. They love that. They love that Canyon, or that chasm gets so deep and so wide that it's nearly impossible for for them to go, you know, to get back into sync with their partner. So it is leading to this deep, deep silence. They're afraid. To open up about this, they don't know what choices to make because they feel so limited, but they know what they want. And that really, and your strength really inspires them. How would they describe you? To others. As a teacher, the ability to communicate knowledge, experience, skill, and wisdom. They would describe you as a servant, someone who delights in serving others. And as a healer passion to serve others by repairing. The body and mind and the saboteur. Highlight your fear of self empowerment. So they would describe you as a teacher, as someone who's a servant and a healer, but also someone who sabotages themselves OK. Have they considered contacting you? There's an X here. X and size. The ex and the the the sex that they had with their acts really. Transformed. Transform them or again it brought death in some way. So again, death is extremely transformative card. So whatever happened. With the King of Pentacles and the Sacks. So their acts and Sacks really transform them. Ohh. And and they apologize and they feel sorry. Because of this transformations. Are they wanting to contact you? They feel that they've invested and and they are tending this relationship with you, but they're currently going to hold back. Again, because cheating would be regrettable because of the children. And that's the. So they don't want to cheat because they feel like it would be regrettable. Again because of the children. Or because it would be extremely immature to do so. So there again, there's something that happened with their acts and their sexual relationship that really transformed. Them again, it was like the death of who they used to be. And you know, again, they're, they're dealing with. They're really sorry about this particular aspect. There are investing and tending this relationship with you, though they hold back because she would be regrettable because of the immaturity or because of children. And that's the truth. Is there competition for their attention? They it's saying that they're loyal to tending this. So they're loyally tending this relationship with you? They've been loyally attending. Uh, attending it, You know what I mean? Like a nurturer. So they've been nurturing this relationship. Um. Whatever they're doing, work, school, some kind of collaboration is going to be coming to an end here soon. And again, there's a lot of hope. So. I don't think there's much competition for their attention because again, it's it's starting off with the strength and loyalty card. How, how loyal and how much strength have they given this situation with you? I don't know when some kind of work. School collaboration is over. They're really hoping. This person right for you? The mother or mother had really brought it to an end. Always, really. Betray some kind of betrayal? We're talking about an Empress here. Either gets betrayed or or betrays the king of cops. Which again, this is normally the one you like. This is the one that has emotions. This could be overly dramatic or emotional man, or a man that's not, you know, that you have emotions for, but that you're that he's not speaking. So, again, is this right for you? Well, the Empress is going to betray him. The mother is going to betray him. Empress. Betrays the king. The king of wands here, the cheater, He invests very little. He invested very little. And then gets caught. Tell me if this is right for you. The judgment is. The judgment is they're going to get left out in the cold and everything's going to fall apart at home. So is this person right for you? Well, I don't know. That is not a yes or a no, it looks like. This Empress over here betrays him an it's not the other way around, because I always read these cards the way they fall, because again, order isn't is important for terror. So. There's this betrayal and then this, this cheating man, he he does so little. And then they get caught. The judgment is. Someone gets left out in the cold here and everything falls apart at home. So I don't know. Question still is, is this the right person for you? Could read that as your mother won't think so. Just the right person. The judgment is. You know that you might. The judgment is you should. Protect yourself. From the bird. The judgment is you need to protect yourself or you're going to be. Very protective. Of yourself because of the bird. So there's a burden. With this particular person. So what's the burden about here? It's about him and the cops. And his anxiety? So you're going to need. Again, there's a need here to protect yourself. And carry the burden, and the burden is this man's anxiety. When it comes to to the break up, back to this avoiding the situation by ghosting it till you're single. Until that comes to some some kind of awareness about the silence. So again, I feel like the I feel like, you know the miles between these two people are really grown. But there's a lot of anxiety that comes to the break and you know, because of the break up energy. So someone definitely had a relationship. What they section you? Changing this question. You're going to be. Ohh make me come all over you. So um. That would be their SAX. Are there any? Sexual or are there any vices, sexual or addictions that you should know about? Seeing you, you can expect the emotions with the King of Wands to be mutual and public and public. And that is what causes the betrayal and the fight. And the distance with the selfish woman and then the need to move or take a trip. Are there any sexual advances or addicts? There's a lot of fantasy. This person fantasizes a lot. What is the guidance? Trio. Call back. They will return. Pull back. Until you can return order, till they return or until there is some kind of success. You know you need to. You needed to defend yourself against these decks. Against this. The X. Yeah. There's again, this independent woman causes lots of suffering. Of this independence causes a lot of suffering and heartbreak. Back to this, They're like avoiding. They're avoiding their partner. Whoever they're with right now, they're avoiding them. It's just heartbreaking. They're going to give as little as possible to this pitch and you can expect the emotions to. So what's your? What the Taro seems Hold back, save up some money. You know, hold on to this relationship. It will be successful. Someone's going to return either you to them or them to you, but in the meantime, you really need to. You know, stand up for yourself when it comes to these Dicks and possibly your axe. Again, this independent woman over here, she's either causing stress and heartbreak. Or. And again, you know this woman over here, She's an entrepreneur. She's doing her own thing. And again, it doesn't have to be. It's independent, single, independent. So it could just be the single person in this scenario. Again, there's a lot of stress and heartbreak. Umm. They'll end up giving a small amount of money to this, but you can expect that the emotions will be mutual. So you have space this person to have mutual options. If you're sitting there wondering, do they really like me? Do they really want to be with me? Yes. The very end of the of this terror reading it does say it is mutual. It looks like they're. They're, they're, you know? It's a weird way to get out of a relationship, but. It works. You know what I mean? If there's distance, it doesn't take much to make more distance. So it looks like the your person of interest here is creating. A distance. Between them and their partner, that's going to be too vast. To overcome. And that will lead to the breakup. Uh. You know, again, there is this need for you both to get up and out of this pressure cooker you find yourself in. You know this love is going to come together or it's going to be disregarded. So it's like still this relationship still up in the air, but it looks like. You know, you should hold on. It's it will be success. But you really need to defend yourself against some Dick or your Dick. OK, So what? How do you defend yourself against this, this Axis deck? There's just a real juggle between wanting to fight and wanting to move on. Just, you know what I mean? There's a juggle between do you fight or do you just move on? There's again, there's some kind of messages here. About a relationship or sharing feelings with an Empress with a mother. One is messaging and sharing their feelings with the Empress. You're the mother of some sort that's creating this mind trap. So if your mother's involved, for their mother's involved. Or there's a baby Mama that messages are creating this mind trap. This selfish woman is stalking the situation as well. See, there's stalkers. This is the selfish one, which I don't know if this is the one the other. She's stalking this situation. She Thanks. That it's an illusion that the emotions are mutual. So, so there's there's messages happening that are sharing feelings. Um. With a mother, OK? And it's creating this mind trick. This selfish woman is watching and she is is she thinks that the emotions are an illusion. But if they're really successful? And there's hope. And that creates this Blues lose situation. When it comes to friendships, when it comes to other women. When it comes to cheating. And that manipulates the situation. That's true. I'm not going to go any further. So that's the truth. So as far as with with the Acts, there's really this juggle. Between. Writing it out or moving on? OK. Again, there's massages. And it's creating this mind trap. This selfish woman is talking the situation. And again, there's like this. It appears mutual. That might be her energy. But it's going to be successful in time. It's because of this lose lose situation of this I want to say this ghosted and ghosted in the relationship. Yeah, and and relationships as well. And I get to a point where you're basically, you know, there's nothing weirder than living with your partner and feeling like you are in two different worlds. And I was just, I just saw a post in my memories this morning. Where you know. Close And I talked about this on Facebook, but years ago. Most people only spend about 3 waking hours with their partner a day. OK. And if you don't work with your partner intimately like within you know, like you know the business together or something like that, you really only see your partner for three hours really because most of the time you're sleeping, you might see them on the weekends. You know, if you're both busy and you both have, you know, friends, groups or activities, let's say you go and. Do you know you have your? Evening. I don't know. Trick room where you do crafts or your or your crate. And like I said, so like a few times a week, you know you're not seeing this person at all, right? You might see them, like, you know, in the morning before you leave for work. And then there's people that like work different shifts. And so there's a lot of. Um. People just don't spend enough time together to even have a relationship in reality because of of the constraints of work in a lot of ways. So. You know it's easy to allow a relationship to to fall into this ghosted and not really say or talk to them as much as much as like ohh no dinner tonight, I'm going to be late, you know what do you mean or. Then you then you get to the end of the week and it's like, OK, you've literally spent. Six hours with this person and most of it was in front of a television looking at your fault. Like how many quality hours did you spend with your partner and your? The Wednesday sacks routine lasted 10 minutes, tops, right? So really, how how long did you connect with your partner? Well, 10 minutes. He had sex that week. You might have sat down and ate food with them. Did you even talk while you while you ate? You know what I mean? Or was it? And what was the contacts of the conversation? Was it like, OK, this is the shit I'm doing this week? What are you doing this week is more about, you know a partnership when you know both becomes business, right? When it becomes more about. You know, getting on the same page just so you know where each other is at. But this is how cheating happens. You get to the point where this chasm is so large, right? That you know, you know, they're going to karate class, but really they're going to meet someone to fuck, right? Or they're going to the gym. But really what they're doing is they're at the gym checking out other options. They're sitting in their car in a fucking parking lot for half an hour. You know, looking for chicks on tender. You know you you allow so much space. You. That's space gets to be very difficult to overcome in the relationship and then it you know, you get to a sense of almost numb and you don't even care. Right. So yeah, it looks like sooner or later their relationship is going to void itself out just in silence. You know, but it says for you to hold back right now. You know, let nature take its course when it comes to the death of of a relationship. Maybe take up 10 as a little money. Alright, I will be back with the next three. Hold on.
Bunny head:
Now they're. Hey, look, I know Easter is in March, but to pull out two bonnies, it's another Bonnie. It's just a Bunny head. The points with the bodies as we God damn it. Buddy show here. You have. Wouldn't get out your Bunny costume? God does bunnies. This situation between the two. Oh my God, you're both trying. You're both on the the hands hamster wheel, so you're both just like dealing with the Daily. Work. Etcetera. You both are like recalling and reminiscing about. Energy. There's. Female. There's law here. OK, and this love is is again comes and goes. It feels like waves, so it, like rushes in when they feel it. OK, let me throw one on this feminine card, because I'm not. Just because of last week, I'm leaning more towards feminism. Yeah, this this feminine energy is creating. Rate is rageful. So again, there's this on the hamster wheel trying to survive. You know, reminiscing and thinking about the past. And this feminine energy creating this rage. You know, or creating this pressure cooker. So right now. Again, there's there's this hamster wheel, and there's also this reminiscing. But then there's this. Feminine. Pressure. There is love here. But it's coming on OK, It's coming in hot and then it's going out. So there's like some back and forth energy here. What don't you know about their situation that will help you make a better decision? You know. They have some kind of legal, some kind of paperwork and something legal is going on that. They're on the verge to talk about it. They've been going through something very, really very official. Could involve the port. They're on the verge. Around The Verge. To talk to their family about it. They are focused on you. And that's really got them locked down. They really don't want to talk to you a lot. They're kind of they're there's a need to negotiate. Yeah, because they're in the middle of a breakup guy. These are we have so many breakup readings. Over this period of time. So currently they're going through something kind of legal. I don't know if again, there's paperwork, it's, it's filed paperwork, so there's agreements, right? And once you come to an agreement with someone and you sign it and you file it legally with the court system, it becomes law between the two. So again, there is this energy of dealing with dealing with this. Legal scenario. On The Verge to tell their family about it. OK, they are focused on you and this focus creates this confinement. Or they're confined right now because they're in the middle of a new negotiation. Dating a breakup? OK. How do they feel about your? It makes them feel a little unstable, but it helps them realize how bored they are. Need them Realize how bored. You're feeling very isolated, like I feel like nobody cares about them. Um. But every night used to do something in their dreams they think about. You feel this very seductive energy towards you. Feel like you have been seduced. They're dealing with a lot of worry right now and they're carrying the weight of the world on their shoulders. And they're really angry and miserable. So. Your presence makes them feel unstable because it reminds them how dull and fulfilling their life is. And how isolated they feel. You have seduced this person. They are dreaming about you, but they're carrying such a heavy, heavy weight back to this, just trying to survive through the daily hustle. They have a lot of anger inside and they're. OK. How would they describe you to the others? They would describe you as a knight, loyal, romantic and chivalrous. They would describe you as a student, someone who is he has humility and devotion. Turn to Learning to Knowledge. Lifelong. So they see you as this loyal romantic, and they see you as a a student, someone still learning. And they see you as a scribe. Someone who's preserving knowledge and information. So they see you as someone that would come to the rescue out of love and. Are they considered? Yeah, you can. There's an expectation. That this single independent woman is going to move. He's gonna move on from stock. So this, this again, this. It's the lady of the panicles. This is you know. You know, I could read this as a rich woman. I could read this as. Um. You know, she's normally single or independent or entrepreneur and it could, it could go for both sexes. So again, there's this expect expectation of singlehood in some way or expectation of this. You know this wealthy woman will move on from watching. The real. There's a real struggle happening. The judgment is it's destined to happen because. There's a burden of horse because the burden of some horror mother. Is really a burden of a whole mother. Have they? You can expect to I have to read that first card out as the most important card you can expect. Yeah, they're expecting to to communicate with you at some point, but again, they expect the single woman to move on from watching this scenario and causing a fight. The judgment is again it. The judgment is just destiny to carry the burden of this 4 mother. For this, yeah. So. They're just going to give a little bit to it and that's the truth. Um, So yeah, there's an expectation that they that they will communicate with you in the future. Is there competition for? Competition. There's gonna be some kind of balance or reconciliation that comes between. Cups and this lady of the pinnacle. So there's again, there's some kind of balance between this man and this single woman. The choice will be to sneak. It could be sneaky about it. Um. And loyal to be sneaky. And loyal to be sneaky. What's? Away from loyalty or to be sneaky. This. Girl on the axe that they from their childhood. All right. So there's going to be a reconciliation between these two people. It could be three people walked around that really should because it's so intemperance can't complete the tackles. Those are three characters, but normally temperance is reconciliation. Finding balance. So again, there's gonna be a balance here that's going to is being sought after. Is there competition? Well, there's a there's a balance between these two energies and the choices to be sneaky. Which is a strong decision, I'm gonna read it. A strong decision because it's it's strength and the two of wands they're going to make the there's a decision here to be sneaky and it's that is a strong decision because of the acts from their child. So is there competition while there's it's, it doesn't look like, it looks like it's going to they're going to reconcile and choose to be sneaky, which is this, which is again a strong decision or loyalty is the decision. So I feel like it's not necessarily about competition. This person. Yes, it's Tanner Pentacles. So yes, this relationship will be extremely abundant. That's a yes. What would they sex you right? This relationship, if it comes to fruition, will be very important. Again there in the middle. Through a divorce and some. Bend over so I can play too. Play to interest. To bend over. It's a big sexy. You make me feel alive inside you send shivers. We're going to tease you. So they're sexting would be. She would bend over and I want to see you bent over. You make them feel alive, they're gonna, you know, there's they're speaking about how visceral this this particular relationship is and they are going to tease you until you explode. If the key. Do they have any sexual or advices or addictions that you should know about? Ohh, I feel like they like to shop. There might be. Like in the they might spend money foolishly. It's the page of Pentacles. The the Five of Pinnacles, which I would read normally read it as shunned. I could read it as poverty and the full. So yeah, they spend. They might spend money on foolish things, again making them feel poor in some way. So if they have a vice or addiction shopping. OK. What guidance? Again, there's a, there's a There's a lot of distance here. Between you, that's throwing the world. It could be like again, there could be you could be on the Internet or only connected on the Internet with this person. But I'm gonna read it since this first card out as distance. There's a lot of distance here. The judgment is. Because of that distance, they're not able to give to this like they would like to. There is some real truth here in this relationship. And there is it has it can lead to some deaths. So, you know, some of the decisions have been made to lead to the destiny of this relationship. There again, there's still a lot of distance right now, too much distance to invest very much. And that's the truth. This deck really needs to move on. From a very dramatic ending and and that is why there is this struggling and wanting to. To sneak off, it's because there's there's fear. Fear. But there there's continued work on this, towards this decision. You're working on this decision. So hold back till everything falls apart and rest and heal yourself so there's a lot of just resting and healing. Ohh that needs to happen. After this thing falls apart. This man is getting older, and that's really dropping him in his head. So again, this might be a man, you know, reaching. Region is 40s or or older and you know it's having some more. Midlife crisis Kind of older energy, but that is just an illusion. Um. That they're dealing with right now, that they're getting older. So, and everybody hits that once you get like into your later 30s and into your 40s and so on, you have to become acceptance, you know, accept the fact that you're getting older, you're no longer. You know that viable 20 some. Energy. So again, they're really trapped in their head, right? This man, this father, is trapped in his head by age. Is only. But they are dreaming. Uh, this emperor is dreaming about the sides, and that's going to be very strong. So uh, look, there's a lot of distance the cards are saying. Uh, you may only have access to this person on the Internet. The judgment is that there's too much distance for it to be invested. But there is some truth in this connection that will lead to some destiny between the two of you. This deck has to move on from some kind of death or some kind of umm. It could be literal death. It could be, I mean if you if this man over here is having age crisis within himself. But again, it's just an illusion. So just really struggling between sneaking off and being afraid. But they're he's working on it. You know this deck here or this energy is working on a decision. So just hold back till everything falls apart. Last. And that is like that is the truth. Like if you want to stop aging, but aging for. You want to stop aging? Uh, sleep. You go and read all the research about aging and it all comes back to getting enough for us. And most people are not, you know, prioritizing, you know, last. You know, they're going to stay up till midnight and watching television or Netflix or whatever like that. What the lack of sleep really ages people, You know, having having the dark circles under your eyes makes you look. I'm not getting enough rest. Your body needs that time. Uh, to heal and to to rejuvenate people that get 8 hours of sleep a night or more well rested and they look younger. It is true you want to stop aging. The most important thing you can do? Is, you know, eat food that you make, not food that you buy. Because there's a big fucking difference right there. Because. whether you're eating from the frozen food aisle or you're eating at restaurants and and groundhogs and etcetera etcetera doordash that is all processed food and preservatives for you to to digest. So the best things you can do. If they're fighting. In your own body. Just to get enough. Prioritizing your sleeping and it takes a little while, but you'll get used to sleeping going to sleep. And then you'll benefit from those extra 2-3 hours of sleep, specially if you find yourself waking up. A lot through the night and up to the pear, whatever. Having trouble falling back to sleep. The sooner you start that, the longer and the better you will. And it only takes a little bit of anxiety to start really affecting your sleep. That's why it's so important you have a sleep routine that's so important that you start. Think about sleep. Ohh a lot, a lot earlier than you're going to go to sleep, you know? You know, at 8:00 our lights go all dim. We start, you know to you know we start the. The light pollution in our home, we started down that just so that our bodies know, OK, we're starting the process. Going to sleep on time. And your eyes. You know are a huge connector to your melatonin. And how you fall asleep at night, you know, so being able to to turn your phone off because that's like just a bright light and you're talking. Are turning that. Brightness down. Turning the TV off at a reasonable time you can't like. Sit there and shoot a bright light into your fucking eye until fucking midnight. You think that you're just gonna go right to sleep? I mean, some people do. People can do that, but now. As you get older, that gets to be harder. That's probably. Go to sleep like 830 and they're off at 45 AM, alright? And there is something to be said for circadian rhythms and getting yourself on to that kind. Natural. Body. So. Like I said, all the research says that if you want to look younger, you need to. That's it. There's no cream. There's no supplement. That's gonna make you younger. What's going to make you younger is allowing your body to time to heal while you're unconscious. OK, there's my two cents there with the Bunny reading. I'll be back with the last one. 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Last reading, not Bunny. I never walk, OK? Just so you guys know. It's a dollar bill, $100 bill. $100 bill. This one, here we go. Describe the situation between people. Come together card reconciliation. Wanting to come together, we need to reconcile. Soul mate. Or friendship. Possibly wanting to come together and reconcile this friendship. And it always has music in it. I'm one of those. Like there's all these rules now that say that if you have a constant. Soundtrack in your mind, you know you're neurodiverse. I just feel like that is how people who fail. Don't get bored. And there's so much like everybody's wanting to. It's like, let's all be special. I I mean, I just don't. I think there's more people in the world that think. And music. Then they're not like, I mean, I just don't think, I just don't think city there having it constant, you know? Song stuck in Your head is there's more people. There's people. People are all. Music. All right, there. So there's like a real want here and desire to reconcile this particular friendship there. There's wanting to put some kind of offer on the table. But there's some definite toxic people. That again. Or behaviors that need to be, that need to be intervened. And then there's a financial support card. So what is the situation? Well, there's one thing to reconcile this friendship. There is an offer on the table. So you guys have. Talked about coming together or you know there is that kind of energy because of the fact that there are toxic, unhealthy people or behaviors I'm going to lend towards people here and then and a feeling that they need rescue. Possibly with financial support. So I mean this, I I know people like this. It's interesting. Again, I'm back to the money, money, money. Um. You know. A friend that moved out way, way out West and he. You know, gotten this relationship moved out there for love, all right? And then it wasn't so long. And after that he was like wanting to come home. And so he was hitting up his friends for money, trying to get enough money to come home. And the same person is like telling me his his grocery bill. I'm like, Oh my God. Spend on groceries. You know, and it's been so like, you know, when he hit me up, he's like, you know, I need help. I'm thinking about leaving this relationship blah blah blah blah blah. And all I could think of is you spend twice as much money. On food than I do. I don't have money to give you. To do this. You know what I mean? There's like certain people out there that again, they want to be rescued. So this, I mean this could be a toxic situation in which they're using, they're wanting to reconcile this friendship to use you. Again, they might be like, oh, I got to get away from these toxic people. You got to save me. You gotta save me. I need money. And that's how this feels. So this particular person is, is warming up to you just to get money and they're going to use the sob story that? They need rasp. OK, that's very clear. So red flag, red flag. But like I said, you know, there's people do this kind of stuff and and I mean they hit, he hit just a bump in his relationship and then he was calling all his friends trying to get money to come home once That was the first bump in their relationship. You know, I mean, they're fine now. They work through everything. You know he had a bad weekend with this person. And then. Was begging all sorts of people. Move home. What don't you know about the situation and that will help you make a better decision? This person really is and pursuit. They have an unquenchable thirst. For taking risks. So this person is like, in pursuit of taking risks. So this person is very risky. All right. And they get themselves in these situations. Yeah. They have a history of, you know, moving and then needing rescue. Yeah. This is exactly. Yeah. And. And it's. That causes all this pressure. So what you don't know about the situation is this person is pursued. This situation they've been in or that they feel stuck in because they they, you know, had some kind of insatiable desire to take this risk even though there was all this history involved and there is a history of this person moving and changing locations every time they get upset or get put, have put. Someone puts pressure on them either to grow or to change or something like this. So this person when they again I'm taking inspiration from this particular relationship that I that I have. When this person gets upset, they, you know, they they go out and you know, look for help, financial help, so that they can get out of their situation. How do you feel about your present? Is it narcissistic? They're really anxious. They want to heal this broken relationship. But they're broken. But you have helped this person. You might just you. You helped this person and you're strong enough to help this person. But this person is is praying, praying on you. Because you have the means to help them, or they think that you have the means to help them. You make them very happy though. So. How do they feel? They they they feel very anxious when it comes to to healing what is broken. You are a guide to them. You have helped them or come to their rescue before. They know that you're strong enough and you do make this person happy. So again, they are reaching out to you to be saved from their particular situation and they are needing financial support. But they have a history of jumping into these situations. And moving into these situations until they completely explode. This person possibly has a rage issue. We need the money. Alright. How would they describe you, the others? As a gambler, so then this might be narcissistic because they're obviously the one gambling. They would describe you as a gambler to other people that you that you gamble with. They would also describe you as a priest, someone that facilitates. Spiritual commitment. So like you have a you know you have a priest like energy to you in which you save people, right? And they would say that you're someone that loves nature. So how they would, how they would describe you to other people is they would say you're a gambler, you take risks. Possibly. Relying on your lock. They would say that you love nature and animals and they would say that you have like a priest like vibe to you. So someone who comes to someone's aid just out of spirituality. Is this person considering contacting you? Again, they want to reconcile this friendship or romantic partnership. Yeah, surely. It would be foolish though, to give this person money. That's what it says. Yes, 10 of cops. You would bring them fulfillment, surely there, if they haven't contacted you, if they're not contacting you already. Yeah, surely they're going to contact you. Would be foolish to give this person money. Is there competition for their attention? This person is a Dick and and again sets the situation up. Yeah. If there's there's, yeah, there's probably competition, yeah. There could be competition with other with, you know. This person's a Dick. So yeah, there's other other people. You're not the only one they're looking for money from. They've again, this is. But they've. Created this particular situation. You know, they really wish that they could work, but there's a decision here. But the decision is you for for them to be happy, you have to give them money. So if you want this person in your life, you're going to have to pay them to be in your life. All right, this is the friendship that you paid for. OK. So is there competition well if you pay for their affections now? This person right for you? Sorry. Would be a bitch here with the person's not right for you. They're just looking to get out. Yeah, it's it's karmic. It's a karmic situation. They're going to. They're paying their karma. You're paying their karma. So if you pay for them to come into your life, you're paying the karma off in their other situations. This is someone who's like, gonna use you. For money. What would they next? It's going to be $100 here, 100. How much is it going to cost to move this person out of their particular situation? Moving isn't cheap. My head between your legs, I say. I love your stomach, your legs, your hips, your lips. You are just perfect. This person is going to tell you everything you want to hear to get money from you. Don't trust this person. This relation. It's toxic. You need rescue. If I give. So they want. Yeah, they're. Of course. They're all gonna be like, I'm gonna eat your pussy, I love every part of your body, blah, blah, blah. And then you get into the relationship and they're gonna eat your pussy. You know, if you buy them the pair of tennis shoes they want or some bullshit like that, you know what I mean? Any any vices, sexual or addictions? It's saying you should move on. Just move on. Make the decision. Move on from making this decision. Yeah. They're they're far away from you now. There's distance, and it would be a bird. Where it's only on the Internet. And it would be able to. This relationship will be a financial burden. OK. What guidance did Terra card talk? It's that same kind of person that they won't they'll they'll they won't spend their money. You know what I mean? Like their moneys for that. So like, if you get a relationship with them, they'll expect you to pay the rent, they'll expect you to pay all the utilities, and they'll work, but they don't make as much money as you do. So they're monies for them. That's that. That's that, this kind of energy. You know. I'm sorry these millennials grocery bills are so high because they don't know how to cook and they're not even eating this food. It's crazy. All expensive door that. I mean like Fucka Domino's Pizza is almost fucking $30. Go pick up a pizza for 10 bucks, you know what I mean? Crazy. Laziness is expensive. Your experience is going to. To stand up for you here, deny this lose, lose situation because it's just about money. OK. And it's Dustin. They will return. OK, they'll return for more money, and that's the truth. They'll keep coming back. So if you give this person money, they'll keep coming back for more money. If you give this person money to be in this relationship with you, you're going to have to continually pay for them to be in this relationship with you. You're not. You know this this person is basically a prostitute, right? Whether it's male or fucking female, it's toxic. They're asking to be saved from the situation that they've put themselves in, taking the risk. And having this history of moving into these explosive situation. Your experience is going to defend you here. Um, so that's how you're going to deny this particular situation, which is a lose, lose situation. They're just wanting money from you. They will return. So that's the truth. Be ready. They want to reconcile. Alright. So this person is going to return and ask to reconcile with this particular relationship because. They know that you. You know, or you're good enough with your money that you know, or you are a compassionate and philanthropic like you know philanthropist. You don't mind helping people out from time to time, and this person is going to take advantage of you and you and tell you you're beautiful, tell you you're sexy, tell you that. They're going to eat your pussy, but it's all just for money. There's no real. Um. There's no real motion. OK, so you know, if you want to pay for this one. Is it worth it? You know, is it worth, I mean, if you're going to get an orgasm and you think this person's hot and you don't care that you're going to pay their rent or pay? For them to move in with you. You know what I mean? $100 you might need supplement. And some. So yeah, this person's gonna cost you. And. And that alone is a red flag, so. Yeah. Don't. Don't fall for it. They've rested. This is their pattern. OK. This person has a pattern of doing this, so as soon as you tell them no, they'll go on and find someone else to try to get money. That's the truth, and you'll go watch them move on. All right, so don't sit there and feel guilty because you have a friendship with this person and they are really in a bad spot, blah blah blah. If you don't have the extra money to help them, you can't. You know, give them money to move across the fucking country to get out of their situation, which they put themselves in, which they need rescue from. And it's a different story if we're talking about a man and a woman again. You know, there's different, there is different scenarios. This relationship though is about money. And you know that deep down inside. OK. Yeah, so let's move on. Find someone that's going to look at you. Like special person that you are on the inside and not for. You know your financial stability, right? Alright, I will be back. We're going to talk about pics. I'm so excited. I am. I'm really excited. Right, Talk about. You know, it's a little bit different than I'll, I'll wait, Sorry, starting now. second all right hold on
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All right, let's talk about sending pics. Uh, taking pics, You know, Let's talk about about the whole thing. Let's first start. With the reality. It's kind of interesting. You know you need. Um. You know. Sending pics and sexting very similar. They really are for couples. I know this sounds like weird, you don't really think this, but. But couples that sax normally report having a more satisfied sex life. So you know, there's this whole aspect, like there's trust within a relationship and so you know, sending pics and that kind of stuff is a lot safer when you're already coupled in a relationship. You know, and then there's the cheating aspect. So most people that sax are, you know, couples or they're, you know, they're cheaters. Um. Yeah. Why? Because they can't just go hook up. Because, you know, sex. You know that's. That's the line, right? Like it's when we talk about cheating and and pics and sexting. You know, a lot of, a lot of people would think that that is cheating. And yes, to to a certain extent. It definitely is, but it's not a physical relationship, you know, That's when you add in that emotional relationship or. You know, again, just of the mentality of something new, right? Or something taboo. I'm not allowed to do this, so it excites me even more. Right, there's a whole nother aspect of. Anticipation and taboo and it's something you're not supposed to do. And those all those things make it sexier, right from a male point of view and a female. So you know, most sexting occurs within relationships, whether it's the the couple themselves or cheating, right? You know, it's easy. To. It's easy to fall into those those situations, especially if you feel like you're lacking attention. Right, but it is a weird line right there. Like what is cheating? You know, is sexting cheating? A lot of people are going to say yes. I mean, most men, if they found out their girlfriend was sexting with someone else, yeah, they would think it was cheating, right? But if they or them themselves were caught, you know, that's when you start, you know, blurring the lines. My first experience like with like send pic. Mentality. I was in college and I had moved in with my ex-husband. At least came off and then I moved out. Six months and my computer had the Internet because I was in school. To the Internet. And pop back, then it's probably still dial-up. I don't even know if we had a cable modem at that. Yeah, I'm old is Google. But. But yeah, he had forgotten to sign out of his e-mail. And you know, I opened up my e-mail and checked my e-mail and. Return. Emails from a Cam girl sending packs. And so I realized at that point that he was. You know, emailing Cam girls for packs, for free packs. 22 years old, all right, at the time 2223. I think I was still in college. I really do. I think it was right around that time. So it's, you know, everything kind of blurs together. And yeah, I got upset at the time. But I kind of rationalized it, you know, I was never really hung up on on. You know him and pornography. We listen to Howard Stern a lot. And I was kind of accepted pornography as just like an outlet for men and for their testosterone and for their sexual drive. And the idea of, like, trying to stop a man from watching porn is ridiculous. You know you're just going to create a hotbed of lies within your relationship if you play those kind of games. Uh, you know, I tried, you know, especially as the relationship continued, I tried to to relax. I did get upset about that, you know. And from there on he really started to like, you know, be more careful. But I really like, you know, I'm sure I was jealous at the time. We're a little bit like I said, but but I look back on it. The reality is like you know it was the line of professional versus like I wanna what I have been upset if I would have caught him sending pics. With a friend of mine or someone we knew probably been more upset, yes. Yes, I probably would have left him that. That, you know, there's a line there of something different, right? But I did let it go at the time. Because it was like a professional kind of. You know, sex worker mentality. Fuck her. You know what I mean when he gets the pin. But yeah, you know, there's a part of me that looks back. I'm like, well, if I would have left him right then. You know what would have been the outcome? And the only thing that comes to mind is I wouldn't be able to, you know, count my sexual partners with my fingers. Because I was only like 2223 years old. You know what I. Internet relationship for a very, very long time. You know that's the difference. It's like ohh a little bit of fucking wore mostly. Was likely. If I hadn't coupled so early. I know I'm still from the older generation that was like that. You know, Boomers and Jacks are very monogamous. And so that kind of it it again, it lessens your risk over all of getting caught in different situations, getting caught with STD's, getting caught. You know. Multiple multiple partners like they say now that average 20 year old has a body count that is equivalent to a Gen. X or in their 50s that's was a lifetime single Genexa. You know what I mean? So that's like there's such a difference, you know, generationally about. SAX part. Someone could. Accumulate over time. It's just insane. But the one thing you can expect though from the pick game is that it's going to feel. Just like. A tender hookup like you're gonna send a pic and you're not gonna get gratification like you would in a relationship. It's going to have that awkward post calm feeling where you're trying to get out of the situation. Or right are they stop texting me. Immediately after use and so you know, you have to really be aware that the you know the the the tension and the build up to your, you know, spread eagle pack. You're not going to be satisfied after you send that. OK, that's the very first thing I think women really need to realize and know. You know. Who? Which dude? And how much feelings and the specificness of the situation? It doesn't. You're always going to, you know you're if you. If there's no genuine emotions between the two of you, you're always going to feel that lack. Um, and that hollowness and the and the silence after. After he. And the reality we really need to to to realize is. They're not going to get off on your Peck. Like, really. Like they're watching. Like, you know, they're sitting there for Barada, Barada, whatever. You know, just pushy like crazy and go on the Internet. It's just fucking pages and pages and pages and push every, every type of pussy you can ever. They've seen, they fought, right? If you really saw what it took for a man to actually reach climax in a masturbation session, especially a millennial that's had access to Internet porn their entire fucking life. Or younger. You're gonna realize that, like, your pick is child's play. Like. You know the Boomers, Gen. X, they could get off on a Sears catalog pic. That's not happening. Like, because pornography is so accessible. Your pack is. You know it's not. That's a reality you have to really realize, like. What's What's really getting him off? Well, it's it's a threesome. OK, so 3 some porn. It's probably taking, like, you know, a few videos. Or maybe it's even more vulgar. Maybe they're really into, you know, God only fucking knows. Go watch porn. And. It's. And really, what I'm coming to understand is men are probably more attracted to more vulgar porn than these. You know, beautiful. You would consider like gorgeous angels. You know what I mean? Like that She's not sexy to them anymore. That shit was sexy to them when they were. 15 years old. When they were 20 years old, they could get pussy like that. Now they want something really fucking weird. You know what I mean? Now they won't leave you. They touch that, that drip to the knees, you know what I mean? Now they want to see how many Dicks you can fit in your holes, you know? They're into the BDSM. They want to be dominated or they want to dominate, you know? So. Yeah, you. First off, let's have a reality check. Your pick means nothing to them. That's the first thing. Your pick means absolutely nothing unless they really love you. Unless there's like some real connection. But you can't live in a world again about this. Sheets for. Because we know from experience. The moment you break up with this person, they can take whatever fucking pics you sent. Made them fucking public revenge porn. You to death, right? We wonder why. We we wonder why, you know, people are in relationships anymore and why people aren't getting married anymore. And This is why the reality is you go watch porn, you get off, you turn it off and you you're done. And you're already subtly like, you know, if you're older generation, you're subtly, like, disgusted by yourself. Right. And the younger generation doesn't feel that shame. They're not. They're not getting off on the train. Of the taboo Ness that is phonography. Alright, I like the older generations like so. The whole nother level of of sin which makes it even even juicier right makes it even hotter when you know you're not supposed to do something. So anyway, you know, it's just a reality. So why take picks? Why put yourself in these positions? Uh, really? The reality is you shouldn't. You shouldn't send pics like if I had to make a recommendation. For my listeners, especially my younger listeners that are, you know, in their teens or under age, don't send pics. Don't do it. There's nothing good that is going to come from that situation. You're gonna feel hot. For a few minutes before you send it and then after that it's gonna be like they just turned off the pornography and walked away. You know what I mean? That's what it's going to feel like. That's why all these sexual experiences that are people are having. You know, through the dating app mentality and the hookup mentality. It all ends like you turn off the pronoun, like apple, throw it off, you clean up, you turn it off, you put everything back like you never happened, and then you walk away and forget it ever happened. So all the sexual experiences now they're having to, you know, for the majority of the younger generation. Are you know are equivalent to to, you know, turning on a porno, jerking off and getting done. They have the same emotional. Uh, withdrawal at the end of it. You know, so if you think that you're going to have some amazing like build up, no, it's going to end the moment you send. Your your badge. You know what I mean? And that's ultimately what they want. Like, they're not going to get off to you and your panties. No. Keep your panties on. Still walk on. My whole point about pigs is take them for yourself. Create your own pick photo album. How long are you going to be this beautiful creature we're all going to turn into old ladies? There's nowhere for us to go but wrinkly old ladies. So take those picks for yourself now, so when you get to be in your 70s and your age, you can look back and appreciate your body and your beauty and your youth and that you got to enjoy. Is there anything wrong with creating a sexy Twitter account or a sexy and Instagram account? No. If you want to, if you want to put yourself out there, but you're you're going to face a level of Horsham. I face a level of horror shame just doing this show. You know. And my mom always says, well, you're the one who's making this decision. That's right. That's right. Mentality. He made the decision. This is a good crapshoot. This is good. That. Ohh. But yeah, you know, and the reality is there's a lot of women out there that are showing all their parts and and you know, and attracting this, this kind of attention from men just to have any kind of attention to fill, you know, their own need to feel wanted. Well, the sad thing is. No man is going to want you. You know. You know what I mean? You know, so it's, it's, it's really, it's a really difficult subject. In the end, don't send the pic. If you have any doubts about this person at all, don't say. Don't send. That's what I know. I know it's fun. It's it is fun, you know, But you there really is. Umm. There really is a rat. Right. Um. You know, there is no such thing. As sending a safe. Pack. OK, the moment you hit send. That pic is out of. And yeah, you can get an app in which tells you if they tried the screenshot it or stops them from screenshotting, but they can still take a picture with another device. You know what I mean? And for that, for that point, it's really important to protect yourself as you take pics. So let's talk about how do we protect ourselves. And like I said, the moment you break up, even if you're doing sending pics with a with a partner you've been with for a while, the moment you break up they could they they could put you on a revenge site and hashtag asshole. And let's talk about assholes for a minute, because before we get into the dos and don'ts. You talk too to gay men. They don't. They don't fuck around. They just send their asshole pic to each other. Like that is how gay men deal with one another. Are you interested? Here's my ass. And so they literally just send their butt hole pic. OK, and so you can make you know, and that's that's you want to fuck my asshole. That's what they they're saying to each other. They cut all the sexy stuff out. They cut all the the building of tension out and they go straight to the bot hole pic. If you want to fuck my asshole, alright, that is. That is, that's the gay strategy right there. All right. Uh, again, You know, they might send out pics and things like that, but mostly it just just send your whole. And I mean you can really go, you know and and think in the future that's all it's going to be. Send, send your spread eagle, send your asshole. Because that's really what they want to see. Right. But again, does that make, does that help your odds and and clenching this boyfriend that you want, right? Does it really? I don't know. Because they're going to sit there and think, well, if she sat her spread eagle or her asshole pic to me, you know right away how many other men have seen her asshole. You know, and then and then you have to realize that men have this. You know. This difference in opinion. Of pores on the Internet. Again, that's not cheating, right? And then the person that they would call theirs. And can you really be someones theirs if everyone's seeing your fucking asshole pics on Twitter or Instagram? Right. So there really is, like you really do have to be careful. Like once you get in relationship and you and it's, you know, you're past that honeymoon phase, yeah, that's when you should start. You know, steaming it up with what I'm going to do to you when you get home, kind of ship and sending pics and and. But how do we take pics as safely as possible #1 Cover your face. Cut off your face. That's number one rule of sending pics. Cut off your fucking. And the reality is, when you're taking pics, I mean, how many times do you actually get a good, like, sexy shot with your face? You're always looking at the camera weird. Like, OK. Click in there. Right, right. You're actually like looking at yourself. Right in the camera with a very serious look because you're taking pics, right? So yeah, cut off your head because how off? It's hard to get that sultry look in your eyes unless like you're like anet, right? That's like live talking that. Uh, yeah. So like how it's, you know, it just makes it easier to use then you don't have to like nail the position and the right facial expression. But the reality is just cut off your face if you if you don't know this person very well and you're you're dipping your toes in trying to set up a meet up or you know you're cheating on some guy and you. He leaves his wife and that kind of mentality. Go ahead, just cut your fucking face off because yeah. Alright, this white, despite your busy surface, despite your. You should hide your tattoos, birthmarks, anything that you know makes it obvious that scars. That it's you. But you know, down the road it would be like, hey look, they have the same tattoo in this picture and like if you go tattoo and you're you. Your boyfriend or some bullshit on your body, which don't do that. For it, Yeah, yeah. When they're cheating, that guys definitely gonna get a good. Yeah, of her deep trouble with. You know, yeah. Be careful. Cover that shit up. Be careful of your environment. Are there pictures of your family in the background? Like, I know, I know this this guy used to go. Guys night. Yeah we can guys night. Gotta go help the guys. The whole time is wife is at home sending pics to someone at work. Work and it's and it's like. Yeah, she's probably sitting there taking pics and on the night stand is it is a picture of her entire fucking family. Only think about what's in the background. You don't want your dildo in the bathroom. Stuck on the You know, we've all seen that meme where the deldo stuck in the in the in the in the tub, and she's taking sexy pics like going out for the night and there's a huge fight. You know what's in your environment. Be cognizant. You know, make sure that it's a nondescript bathroom shot or you're up against a wall. So that you know you don't see the surroundings as much. So you really do need to be aware of what's in the background because that will identify identify you also. Like what? Like diplomas Can you imagine? Taking sexy pics. And in the background, there's your fucking diploma. Right. Like really think about like what? What's there, you know what I mean? And then take some time and do some post production. You want to go through all your picks and take a lot of picks. Um, yeah. This is like a fashion shoot, you know? And. Take a lot of packs, take a lot of angle. Get all sweaty taking your picks. It's hard work. Great. And then, post production, cut off your head. When you're looking at your your picks, you really should zoom in as far as you can on your vagina, on your nipples. Because they will. They are going to zoom in as close as they can get to your pussy. So zoom that in. Make sure everything looks good, right? Make sure that you don't have any blemishes or. Razor bombs or anything. You know what I mean? You can go ahead and use your heel heel tool or Photoshop kind of, if you want to, you know, filter that shit up, make yourself look great. If you send a pic to someone, you should think. Is this going to look good to the public? Hustler mentality is when I take my pics, I'm like, if this goes. This goes beyond me and this person and more people see this or this gets publicized in some way. Am I going to be proud of this pick? And that's what I say to myself. I'm like, yeah, right, It's looking fucking great. I don't give a shit that could be impossible. Yeah. Right, right. Like that's what you want to think if you, if your picks can, you know, think in a magazine. That's a pic you would want to see in a magazine. Then send it. If it's not, don't send it. Don't allow him to pressure or coerce you or manipulate you into sending a pic that you're not proud of. You know, like let me see you shave your pussy a lot. There's men out there that are really into that shit. And and again, they're horse shaming people. They're using these different excuses, making you feel hot. They're predators. Only to, you know, bring new meat to the group so the group can tear it apart. When you get into these men groups there the the standard quality is extremely high. Alright, they definitely have an American standard in their group that all other policies and asses are judged by. Well, it's not as good as whatever they named Horror #4 from, you know, two months ago, right? You know, so they have their, you know, men love. I mean, that's what Facebook is, Facebook. Was created. To rate women. OK, that's what that algorithm was created. OK to recreate college women and their hotness? So yeah, when you send a pic, if it's going to the guys group, it is getting judged. If they if they share it and if it's and if it's a poor one, it's it's going in just for fun, just so that they can make fun of it. Men are really callous. When it comes to to women's bodies. A couple other like just little tips, turn off location services. Make sure you're not gonna do metadata. Have the metadata on the picture right to your address right. Also turn off auto syncing. You don't want this shit to go onto your cloud. You should have a a file that is password protected. I would not use an Android Galaxy phone for my pics. Trusted Apple more just because their security is bad. Your last line for you have 1/2 but you are. Mentality. So you definitely want to do some kind of encryption folder to hold your perks, etc. There are different platforms, you know that. That are 416, they have a it's called an E2E end to end, end end encryption. Now Facebook and IG are not like this, even though on IGN on Facebook, Facebook's got a vanishing. Feature in which you can vanish the entire sex scene like it never happened and IG has unset and so you can unsend everything. But again, you can't stop them from taking screenshots, but you should vanish or unsend any saxy that you do. You just shouldn't. Because I mean if you're. Product gets broken into or you get hacked or anything like that, that that kind of stuff can be used to blackmail you, right? So you really are trying to protect yourself from blackmail or extortion. Again, it's important for for you to think about your cyber security when it comes to your sexy pets or your news altogether. And you really, really don't recommend sending pics for us any news at all. Unless like you're married and then who gives a shit? You know you can send nudes all day long if it's OK with him. Again, you need to ask for consent. Before you send pets. Like if you really like this guy and you want to rope him in. You know you wanna get the conversation to the point that you like, You wanna see. You know. Do you wanna see me naked or do you wanna see me? Whatever, You know you wanna ask for their consent because they don't want to be in the middle of a meeting. Pics into their phone. Right. Or what if they're using their phone? Or their computer. Uh, you know, for. The conference in some way. And then here it comes your everything sinks now here comes your sax, and it's coming over the. You know, over the projector with your new yeah, you want, you want to make sure it's the right time, right place, when you're sending. When you send me sexy pics now again, you should feel sexy and you should feel empowered and you should take pecks. Not saying don't take them to see me. Yeah, take as many pictures as you. I love taking. Um, I watched, you know, photography. I really. I prefer Europe. Because it's more natural. And it feels more like. It just feels like this, like someone else. Um. Versus, you know. The kind of like American pornography, which is like, you know, you know, the fake tits, tons of tattoos, tons of makeup, you know, they're getting into the threesomes. You know, you're seeing all those, you know, they're hitting all things, like to me. European perform just feels more natural. Normally that women are more natural, you know natural breath. They normally not wearing that cake full of makeup kind of mentality and not that Botox. Porn star. So like, I go and I watch a lot of European porn and get some really great ideas for my picks from from that. Like, I can't tell you how many times I've taken screenshots and then gone, gone to Amazon and looked for the outfit she was wearing. I'm like, I can totally pull that out there. And then I'll go find it. Order that you know. And so now I have like a whole collection of just clothes that you know are sexy just because of porno. So porn is a great like. You know, inspiration is a great inspiration for outfits, for dress up kind of mentality. It's a great inspiration for POV style pictures. And I do recommend POV style pictures because all porno, most pornography Again, unless it's like threesome origin is POV. So again. How do you how are they going to see you while they're talk? You know any mean, so you're getting that doggy styles get a great picture of your. And you're posting this? You know what I mean. Or? You know, on your knees and then looking down at you, you know the the natural blowjob pose, right? You know, laid out on a bed with them coming up over you. What would it look like if you were about to sit on their face? You know what I mean? So you take all of those kind of viewpoints, all those kind of angles and then you work in with those within your your sexy pics and you can really come up with some really great. Angles and some really great shots. Uh, From the inspiration of panography even like you said, like the clothes and and really great porn always starts with us, you know, she's in a sexy thing and she's, you know. We going around showing you her body and so you know there is always a build up in point and that's something that they understand about turning a a man or a woman on and getting to climax. You know it's it's about the experience. You start up, warm up, right and then you get to it. So you want to think about that same. Kind of narrative or, you know, or build up or building the tension when you're sexting with someone. So you don't want to just like, run in there. Here's my. All out, right? No, you want to start with the sexy outfit and what? You take your time up off and you do your tity pics right and then you turn around and you take your bottoms off and you do a striptease. Like striptease is a great mentality when it comes to taking pics. So if you're like OK. Take it Saturday, I'll take pics today. You know, think about, you know how you could undress. And create that tension and make it sexier like a strip. Men will appreciate that enticement, and it kind of you know, these are the sexting games, right? This is how you play the game. Um. Again. Lighting is very important. Natural lighting is better than fluorescent lighting if you can do your pick. In the daytime, do that. Don't do those night picks. Or it's dark and it's. One layout, they all they all look real amateur and they all look a little grittier kind of mentality. They don't, they don't come off as nice. So you should take your picks in natural lighting if it's a bright day outside and there's great diffusing light through you. Through your sheer curtains like great. That's a great fast walking. Tripod. Yeah, I would. Of course there's a few ways you can do this so you can again set up your phone. Set up. Set it up to record. Do a bunch of poses and then go back and screenshot. Your video and the double delete entry double delete. Before it goes to the tower. You know. But you can get some great shots that way. But again, it can be a little grainier. Phasing. Uh. You know another great thing to do is some tripods come with a Bluetooth clicker. So and I love mine right about my tripod I can get angles of you know of of 6 foot man looking down I can get I can get it down to 2 feet from the ground. You know what I mean? And also holds it stably. And then you get yourself a clicker and. You always kind of want to you know, play with different angles and don't sit there when you're going through your point post production with your pictures and and hurt yourself like no woman is gorgeous from any from every angle. If you go watch like I'll watch this one from nowhere, it was of course it was like. She was auditioning for pornography and that's classic porno you know mentality. So she so she is again. She's so he's flopping her for this is her holiday ocean. And from the back end, she's gorgeous and beautiful Bubble, blah, gorgeous little lips. I mean, he's walking out. It's great. There's no. She had absolutely no Cellulitis on her, on her bath fizz, gorgeous view. But then they flipped the camera from the front and you want you see your titties hanging her belly, hanging her, her gooseneck, and it's like, Oh my God, it's like a completely different person. And like her standing up. She was gorgeous. She's beautiful. From the front view, doggy stuff, that's horrible, so you can be the most beautiful woman, but from a front view, doggy style, that's not a good angle. You know what I mean? You know any woman in the sitting position that is going to accentuate your belly all you're going to have roles, even the skies falling is going to have rolls. That's why I always tell you right back on your back. You know, so don't sit there and. And. The great yourself. Because that wasn't the right angle. No. Find your angle and get that hip off when you take it out. Shots is really important. Really is a beautiful shot like you can get through, you know just like 1 hip hop. Get that little bit of twist and yourself. Gorgeous shot and you know all the. Yeah, tripod. And you know, Bluetooth. Remote or are great options other than just, you know, putting the phone off. Again, you can go and and look at different photography rules, rule thirds and find different mentalities that help you. Better pictures. But again, if you're doing close-ups of your vagina, don't use zoom. You go take the cameras close and get it to the closer to your asshole if you're taking those kind of shots, because then you know it does. You know if you zoom in, that's when you use the detail. Right. So if you're doing close up shots, make sure the camera is. Uh, what to do with your hands, right? Um, I love my pictures. I I do a lot of touching. So in my pictures, like if I have a sexy outfit on, it looks like it put my hand. That it makes it sentence here, and I put my hands in here, but the moment I go out and touch myself immediately makes that picture so much sense. You grabbing your booties, so much sense. So what are you doing with your hands and everything to realize that the moment you bring your hands into the shot, into the area, you create even more tension? Uh, clear that allusion. Touch yourself. Which to men, women masturbating is very hard, right? Again, point your toes those little things. And then you know if you are cutting off your face, you can leave some lips. Like if you if I have these great teddy shots, like I did all these wet T-shirt shots and like a couple of them I left my lips and and it makes it that hot. Like here I am like soaking wet you know kitties, hard titties out and just my bottom line, Ohh they're great so think about how you can. Different zones. And to your pets, like, right? Yeah, I cut off my head, yeah, yeah, I probably won't send that long, you know, someone. But it's a gorgeous pic of me and I'm going to keep it in mind. You know, so there's nothing wrong with. Uh, again, getting all sorts of different angles of yourself, especially if you like, and this is a really great exercise. To help you feel sexy, to give you confidence. Even if you don't ever send them, it will make you a better lover because you'll be more comfortable in your skin. This whole, this whole activity, this whole exercise is to make you feel sexier and younger and, you know, attractive. And you're giving us attention to yourself again. Lingerie. Yeah. You have to remember there's a whole bunch like I love this sweater and falling mentality, like that commercial you're just laying in bed. There's a lot of column where you know she's just got a sweater on the phone. He wants it. Like they've all that kind of mentality to really. When you set the scene like you're going to walk in. And I'm just laying in bed in a thong and my sweater with my socks on. Reading A blog, right? And that to your boyfriend's sexiest. Sexual assault, don't forget. You know there's wild card shots that are like shoes. Your lights are gorgeous and you have gorgeous legs. Again, just do leg pits, you know? And then there's a whole category people out there that like feet. Pets always point your toes. But fishnets and high heels? Like you don't even have to show your pussy or your asses. You can just show how gorgeous your legs are. Um, so again, what is it? What is taking pics really about? It's about finding the parts of you that are beautiful, and that is a great exercise. If you have a gorgeous neck, line into your cleavage. Right. Uh, if you are one of those ladies that's got a gorgeous belly, torso, or if you love the way your hip. You know, contours down to your. You're gorgeous cat. Beautiful, beautiful. Every woman has. For every spot on her body that she hates, there's a spot on her body that she knows. That's where you. That's where you that's that's where you focus and you should take pictures of the spots that you don't know from different animals and that might help you love yourself. Like there's few angles of me. But when I'm doing, you know, pick sessions, I make sure to always do that angle. Why? Because from a different height, it looks different. Like a man looking at me from six feet has a different view of me and my body than I do looking at me in the mean. It actually looks better from that point. And then then you realize actually don't. That's actually not something to be insecure, because anybody that's taller than me is not going to see it that. It changes the way you look at yourself, and it changes the way you judge yourself. And again I. Any signs? And as far it's about selling it, it's about feeling it. You know, uh, so go find, you know, sexy clothes, sexy outfits that flatter your form at whatever size. And let's remember that you know, again, a size a size 14 is a gorgeous size. Or society wants us to think that size 6, size 4, size 0 are the fable sizes. But real women wear size 14. They wear size 16. They wear size 12. Marilyn Monroe was a size 1012. And she's gorgeous. And she's column choice. You go down to these heroes. These women are like they're they look like pubescent boys. And I don't think it is as hot as we all look and think it is because of, again, magazines and culture. And then also think about different products that you can that be like a father Bold or a Sheer. You know she was. Between the crystals or between your teeth, you know you can play with lots and get creative. And that way, if you meet somebody that you really like, you can show them a creative pic of your lips, your actual lipstick, your lips, or your cleavage. That's not revealing. And then you're also communicating to that person that you have sense of modesty and that you will be modest within the relationship as well you are communicating. Uh, what kind of person you are when you sat? OK, you're letting them know your your boundaries, right? And yeah, there's something to be said for a consequence. Right. Um, they say. You know, we're talk about you know? 30 And building tension on that striptease mentality is really important. Again, like not jumping the gun into into your place of pack, right? You know, staying more modest house that has the relationship develops. It's important you start out. That's not so. You know. Like like I have a pic that's just me and my house dress. Card nipples and I'm eating Cheetos. Sorry, I'm comfortable. I'm just eating Cheetos like that's my first sexy pet. So you, you know, think about that a minute. You know it doesn't have to be what you think it has to be, right? It could be you and cleavage, you know, eating a. Long John, right. Cream start like what came on your lips. It doesn't have to be the policy lips. My point? And even if you're taking policy shots, it is a good idea. Here. No here. What do you do? Well, like all is. All wax, OK? Or they have their, they've done hair removal, you know. So there is like a view that that pubic hair is more involved. So it depends on the person you're dealing with, if you're sending them. It just it's that is a taste thing, you know, I prefer see, like now I'm little bit more like when I see women with care and format and that's like that's even harder now. You know what I mean? When I started watching porn, full bushes didn't seem as hot as, you know, the hairless cat. So, you know, it's it's interesting, like if I were to send an actual badge shot, like a full spread eagle, I probably want to have a lizard. Probably. Just because of. Social norm of that and the fact that pubic hair is actually seems to be a bit more over these. But I love the little triangle. I think that's absolutely adorable. And again, when you watch porn, you start looking at women a little bit differently. You start accepting the fact that women are are, you know, the variety is endless. You know, again, you can look at these women and be like, ohh, that's adorable offering. You want to pull that off? Ohh yes, I love that little triangle. It's just enough, you know, to say I'm a real woman. I can grow hair, but it's clean enough to be looking them still. So yeah. If you're doing shots from behind, make sure you cut off the face. You don't want to be that close face shot. You know the jackpots mentality. But yeah, cut your face off. That's like the most trucking important. And I had never thought about the metadata mentality, and that's a really good thing. But also make sure you take, turn off your location services, turn off your cloud sync when you're taking the photo shoots, you know, and think about it as that it's a photo shoot. You're going to take 100 pictures. You're only gonna get three. Good. OK. And then you might not share any. You know. So yeah, I mean. Is, is, is sexy pictures. This is good. Is this a good thing? Yeah, it's a great thing because it's gonna make you love yourself. It's gonna make you appreciate yourself. You're gonna get a view of yourself from a different angle, and that's important. That's important for your software and your software. Is any motherfucker who shows up in near the end wanna pick? Is he worth it? No. Again, there's a whole group of men out there. They're playing Pokémon Office. They just want to push, so they're good. OK. So again, you know you can. You can be collecting packs right now in the mind frame of these are from my boyfriend. Once we move in together and dancing. You were? From the parks he goes and shows his to someone as my face and. Is my picture of my child. Can you see? Uh again. It's really important that you use. That way, you know what they're gonna see. That's what they're doing. Yeah, no, not everyone deserves. See what you got. And you have to remember too. If you play with them long enough, they are going to get angry. So, like, if you're sitting there playing this game with this household. Create an alarm on couple months. And you decide I'm not going to have sex with him, something he asked you in some way. Right. You can expect him to be angry. Because you've played with this difference. You really need to remember. You live in a in a world where men resent women for their beauty, They resent women for making their backyard. Uh, they resent, the end turned on because. Or was that liking you Because you don't like them? So you know, when you start these, you know these games, these sexting games, with them, you really should have your exit strategy in mind. What? What happens if emphasize it says what? OK, well then he's only. These particular texts. Right. And you have to give yourself enough time to know if you have sex with you. People just go and have sex and that's OK too. Like I'm not sitting here worshiping. Um, it's it's just a different. It's a different view. Sexual energy. Every time we have sex with a man, there is an essence of you. That he takes away, and there is an absence of himself that he reads. OK, so every sexual experience you. There is. He is left behind. Definitely. Somewhere on the right they say that women have bold DNA. Calm them down for their entire lives as well as like if you have like a child, your child's doing is within your room. Every man has come inside your policy. Is within scale. And so you know that that there is a reality of that kind of data. Left with inside, left inside. You know, so it is important. If you wanna have a monogamist, you know, green relationship and then this thing, that mentality. Is old school. But if you want to have that kind of relationship, you have to start off. This. Because the kind of man that wants that kind of relationship, he doesn't want. He's not. He knows he can't find that relationship with someone who would give their pushy shot immediately. OK, so because that's. So yeah, you wanna play with it a little bit before you get into? Once. You want to do it more safely and you wanna send text that again wouldn't fuck you in the future. Or we could be used to blackmail. So it is really worth and it's and it's hard to know what a man is going to think about your body and your pussy until after, right? That's why you need to go watch porn. That will give you a good sense of what is the American stand. Everyone. But then that's where you get these weird guys looking for crazy show. Crazy shit cause can't get off. On all American Pussy anymore. Hey. That's the, you know, one talks about that mental health aspect of. You know, like I look back and it's like. He used to. But yeah, you know where they start and where they end up on two different. And the sooner you come to accepting men. For their shallow sexual beings that they are. So last year we want to give them answers to you. Actual physical access. Again, overall recommendations don't send parents. Um. Living World where a nine out of 10 people have reported that they've Saxton. They sent. So everyone's going, it's it's too tempting, right? Like you said, we've got this whole gay aspect over here and they're just straight up. Here's my butthole. And are we going to get to a point where, like, here's why? When you all get to universal sex, right, I'll get to you. But that's where, That's what. What's the end result, right? Where do we go? Where does it end? It ends in the bottle. Whole shot. Is the last shot. So if you're building the tension, save your asshole for last, because that's where gay men go from. Alright. Uh, and it's different. Alright, good. Is because. That's a different type of culture. First ask questions later that to a woman's danger. Men can do that because they can't get pregnant. You know what I mean? They can't get a man's not going to get horse shamed the same way a woman. And there are. There is the sexism and ageism difference. And if you're a mother, yeah, you're best category is no. OK, Knowing the categories helps. So you know, if you had a kid, your best option, the best you can do in their group is. OK, Mother. That's that's the best you can. So again, realize that once you've had a kid, you're damaged goods. And again, these realities. And for every kid you have after, that is double the damage, alright? These react, these are the realities. So don't sit there and be like, you know, over. Estimating yourself because you're going to get hurt. Instead, you know, appreciate what you got. Learn to love yourself. You will find. Yeah, so many women getting these positions. They wanted to be longer. Radio. Yeah. The house. This country. And that's when you watch completely. Happened on social media. I watch women that are they're dating someone and then all of a sudden their entire profile was gone. That's because he's he's just exposed her and she knows. So she's. Because she's been exposed. This is the world we live, that everybody's. So you really do have to be careful. Like, you know. And. The right household would love to expose. It's probably exposed. Right. And at the end of the. Everything was great while everyone's happy. Remove someone gets their feelings hurt. Ohh and that reminds me they're dead right as you're sexy. Before you send any like naked scan to this person, make sure he sends his deck. Get his Dick. On your phone before you send him any text. And then you know, talk to him like are you going to share these? There are states in which sharing someones someone sex, someone someone's picture of themselves without written consent is a felony. So there are laws against making someone sexual picks public without consent. So there is there, you know, and the more states start to to do this, they will actually protect women in the long run. More states should have laws. In which in which it should be. You know, against the law to to share. An Internet. Yeah. She said, you know, just depends on, depends on the the rules and the laws on the state. But yeah, make sure you get their Dick pic first. Yes, you want the Dick pic. At the very end of the day, you want to be holding the Dick pic before you send your. Show me. Because if they don't show you their their Dick, then they don't have any right to ask you for any of your picks. So when you start these texting relationships, all of these. Uh, yeah, get his deck, because at least you got your hands on smoking balls. But Azure going to the sex scene and that at least gives you some sense of equality. Even though he doesn't give a shit he's using his from. Make sure he's. See how that? But yeah, protect yourself, ladies. It's soft that. But. Make sure you have them in cryptic folder. Password. Right, you don't want to lose your phone in something like access to it. Let's think, In this day and age, we have to be smart. So I hope you learned a few things. I hope you appreciated this conversation. I hope you protect yourself, but also have fun. And I hope at the end of your pick sessions that you love yourself as, you're deleting 75 pictures that aren't just right. I hope you delete them with one. Because you got three amazing picks, and those picks are high enough that they turned your pussy on and now you have to go masturbate. Have a great week!